Woman’s Heartfelt Invitation Turns Into Unexpected Babysitting Nightmare for Sister-in-Law
Owners who go through the loss of a pet can feel misunderstood and isolated
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So this woman was glad when her SIL invited her over after losing a pet, however, her intentions were far from pure
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A pet owner’s grief can be easily dismissed
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Pet loss specialist Louise Griffey tells us that a pet owner’s grief is a form of disenfranchised grief. This kind of grief can be easily dismissed, as it isn’t acknowledged or validated by society.
“Because pets are often seen as ‘just animals,’ people may not understand how deep the bond really is. They might say things like “You can get another one” or ‘It’s not like losing a person,’ which only adds to the pain. But the truth is, grief is about love and attachment, not who or what we’ve lost. For many, pets are family, and losing them can be just as devastating, if not more,” she explains.
The grief of a pet shouldn’t be ignored, as the psychological effect of dismissing the grieving of a pet can be severe, says pet loss grief specialist Grant Hazell.
“A grieving person may feel their emotional response is abnormal, invalid, unnatural, and that ‘there is something wrong with them.’ They may feel unable to fully express their grief, being forced to suppress all emotions in fear of being ridiculed and undermined. When suppressing grief, we only serve to prolong the process, denying ourselves healthy and open grieving without the pressure of timeframes or rules.”
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