23 Shocking Moments When Friendships Crumbled Instantly—You Won’t Believe #7
Ever had that jaw-dropping moment when you realize your “friend” might actually be auditioning for the role of villain in your life story? You know, that instant when their true colors show up brighter than a neon sign in the middle of the night — and not in a good way. Maya Angelou nailed it decades ago: “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” But seriously, how often do we ignore the flashing warning lights because… well, they’re “friends”? Recently, Redditors laid bare some truly heartbreaking and downright shocking tales about those times when friends morphed into strangers faster than you can say “betrayal.” Trust me, some of these stories will have you clutching your heart and questioning your own friendship radar. Ready to dive into the chaos? Just remember: you deserve friendships that lift you up, not ones that make you question your sanity. Let’s get into it. LEARN MORE
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” Maya Angelou uttered those words over two decades ago, but they will always ring true. Unfortunately, it’s not always easy to see someone’s true colors, especially if you consider them to be a friend.
Redditors have recently been recalling times when they realized that a “friend” wasn’t actually who they thought they were, so we’ve gathered some of their most heartbreaking tales below. We sincerely hope that you can’t relate to any of these experiences, pandas. But if you can, remember that you deserve to have amazing friendships and that you can always cut out relationships that aren’t serving you. Keep reading to find a conversation with the user who started this thread, and be sure to upvote the stories that resonate with you.
When he threw a unopened can of coke at a homeless person. Stopped being his friend right then and there and I took the homeless women to get food and gave her money to go get replacement clothes from goodwill. I’ve never been so ashamed of someone before or after that.
He explained to me, after the George Floyd protests, that the outcome of the Civil War was wrong, and that Covid was the fault of black people. Never heard any kind of trash like that from him over twenty years. I stood up, told him I would never darken his threshold again and that we were through as friends. I’ve kept my word.
I’d always bought my best friend lunch in high school, Like everyday. Every when he had detention, I’d come by and drop him off food. This one week, I lost my wallet, so no money. Surprisingly he he had money that week I didn’t have money. I asked him if he could get me lunch and straight up said no. I thought he was joking and then he just bought food and ate by himself. Made me really think people can be so greedy to their best friend. I stopped hanging out with him after that, and I didn’t buy him food anymore.
(He didn’t steal my wallet it was at my grandma’s house.).
My friend owns a very popular food truck in the south. She’s netting a half a million a year in revenue. She needed help for a big event, so I went down and worked for her this past July. I worked with one of her regular employees and I asked how the tips were usually split up. The girl told me that my friend keeps every single tip, and that she’s never seen one. This girl is 20 years old and in college and my friend is still taking the few hundred bucks from her. That money is a drop in the bucket for my friend, but life changing for that girl. At that point I realized true greed. Haven’t talked to her since.
I started dating a really nice girl who worked in a jewelry store. After three or four dates, she told me that my roommate and supposed friend had stopped by the store to tell her my dad was an alcoholic. Which was true, but we both thought it was crude and strange that he did that.
I dumped him and married her. Still married 40 years later.
That time he told me my trans cousin should be shot and it didn’t even occur to him that that’s my cousin. He said it like I was just meant to agree with him like “oh hey, this is what us regular people think when there’s no weirdos around, right?”
Haven’t spoken to him since.
Edit: the icing on the cake is how he just moved on to a different topic as though he didn’t just tell me he thought a member of my family should be executed cuz pronouns or something.
I had a miscarriage, and in response to that news my best friend attached pictures of her own three-month-old baby, ostensibly to cheer me up, at the end of her condolence email (we had grown up together but settled in different cities). I was so stunned by this that I wasn’t sure how to address it; I thought she had perhaps attached the pictures by mistake? She was after all my best friend of many years, so surely she wouldn’t have been so insensitive– so I didn’t reply. For the sake of loving her, and I wanted to continue to love her, I decided it wasn’t deliberate, but it was quite hurtful and it stayed on my mind.
At our next in-person visit, a few months later, she brought up that she had had the idea to send me the baby pictures but thought it “might hurt my feelings,” but also that her baby “was just so cute!” so she asked her husband, a psychologist, if it would be cruel. He reassured her it would be fine, so she attached them. I was even more shocked by this revelation– I could forgive thoughtlessness, but to have her say to my face that she’d thought it could hurt me, but went looking for permission to do it anyway because her baby was cute? Nah. It ended our friendship.
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