25 Everyday Actions That Shockingly Spark Double Standards Between Men and Women—Can You Spot Them?
4. Eating large portions of food. If a woman (even a skinny and fit one) is at an event she enjoys and fills a plate with junk food, it tends to raise a few eyebrows. It’s considered unladylike. When a guy does it, it’s viewed as normal and healthy appetite.
5. Dealing with grief. When a guy doesn’t cry, it’s stoic. When a woman doesn’t cry, it’s cold and unhealthy.
6. Caring little about appearance. If a guy goes a few days without shaving and has some stubble, it isn’t frowned upon very much. If a girl goes without shaving her legs it’s disgusting.
7. Masculime interests. A guy can like cars and video games and sports without question. But if a girl likes those things, it’s “because she wants a guy” or “she’s faking it” and she has to prove her worth and knowledge.
8. I know it’s been said a lot, but sleeping around. It really is a very high double standard. It seems like the pressure is usually placed on women to be the defenders of sexuality. But sometimes we want to get down and dirty too. And I don’t think anyone should be shamed for that — male or female.
That said, I do think that men face a lot of backlash and hardships as well, especially for doing things that normal women do like being alone with children, having open emotions, caring about appearance a lot, etc. I do think women face backlash, even sometimes for behaving like a stereotypical woman (having strong emotions, wearing makeup, wanting to show some skin…) At the end of the day, a little bit of understanding goes a long way. 🙂 Let’s all be kind to everyone around us! 🙂
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