37 Women Reveal Their Deepest NSFW Questions—and Men’s Surprising, Candid Answers Will Shock You
Ever wondered if men actually spill the beans about their s*x lives in their friend circles or if it’s all locked up tighter than Fort Knox? Turns out, the more serious the relationship, the less men chew the fat about it with their buddies. Intrigued yet? What else do guys secretly think about but rarely say out loud—birth control pills, emotional sharing, or even the taste of, well, lady-parts? Dive into this candid roundup of uncensored, hilarious, and surprisingly heartfelt responses straight from the horse’s mouth… or should I say, the dudes themselves. Brace yourself for some unfiltered truths that might just change how you see the fellas around you. LEARN MORE
Do men discuss their s*x life with friends? Or do they keep it private?
acreddited: The more serious it is with the girl, the less discussion with friends.
If you had the opportunity to use non-permanent medicinal birth control, would you? Are you looking forward to the release of vasalgel?
ZiAreEs1: If given the opportunity I would definitely get it just to ensure that I’m completely in control of that. And I’m very much looking forward to the release of vasalgel although I’m sure birth control companies are not.
stuffandthat: I would. You can’t always trust what women say in regards to their birth control.
This might sound dumb, I’m sure all guys are different, but for those guys who don’t really do a lot of (emotional) sharing…why? I guess I wonder just because, if I’m your girlfriend and/or good friend, do you not trust me? Or do you just not think it’s helpful to talk things out? I think my lack of understanding for this has cost me some good men.
irreligiosity: Aside from women being on average more emotionally inclined then men – how the were raised/societal factors are the biggest contributors. It is not socially acceptable for men to be outwardly emotional. This has been ingrained into me from a young age. Though I can’t say how much that has actually effected me because I genuinely don’t have a rollercoaster of emotions – I am content to happy, I don’t usually experience sadness (though this is most likely a me thing). I am also personally not overly compelled to talk about my personal issues because I see no purpose in doing so. It doesn’t do anything to change the situation – though if I am asked directly a question about something I have no problem sharing it.
We also handle our problems differently. If I have a problem, and I ask a guy friend I just want advice – I don’t just want someone to listen to me talk about my problems. Women generally (in my experience) want the opposite of that.
Do you REALLY like the taste of lady-parts? Have had SO say yes but still seems surprising/unlikely…
DirtyYogurt: If you were to serve it up on its own, no. It’s about as appetizing as the taste of d**k, I’m sure. However, its an association thing. I enjoy because of where I am and what I’m doing when I taste it.
Do you continue having wet dreams even when you’re no longer going through puberty? Also, that must be awesome.
toille10: yes, they are pretty awesome until you wake up, then they become really inconvenient and frustrating.
Not necessarily what does it take, but I guess how does it feel when a guy cries?
Not to sound stupid, and every one is different, but when a guy cries it’s is a HUGE breaking point.
Follow up question: do you have more emotional moments with your guy buddies or your SO?
g1i1ch: It’s unacceptable and considered weak in culture. Because of this mentality it feels very submissive like you’re bent over presenting yourself. We feel shame from it.
Yeah it’s a huge breaking point. It means he trusts you enough to show weakness around you without you taking advantage of him. And don’t become power hungry once he lets you in. I’ve had girlfriends that have taken advantage of me when I was younger. Subsequently I don’t remember the last time I cried.
Also when a guy feels pain or sadness we work it off. A big reason why some of us are work freaks. The days I feel upset about something are the days I’m the most productive.
When we ask you what’s on your mind (“hey baaaaby, whatcha thinkin about?”) why is it always nothing??? It CAN’T be nothing every time. If you’re thinking about work projects, or what’s for dinner, or whether or not it would be ok to scratch your a*s while walking up this escalator even though you think there are people behind us…I wanna know!
TheBigTEA: My ex-girlfriend asked me this once and I said “oh nothing” and she said “that’s bulls**t, what are you thinking about”?
So I told her. I was thinking about giant robots attacking the city and what I would do to save her and myself. I talked about it for about 15 minutes.
