53 Bold Questions Women Wish They Could Ask Men—No Filters, No Judgments
anonymous:
if I’m genuinely interested I’m also interested in f**king. As friends? I wouldn’t see a stranger in public and approach them for friendship probably ever.
What is the actual sensation like of getting kicked in the balls? Does it really hurt that badly?
anonymous:
Yes, the reaction you normally see isn’t exaggeration. It is incredibly painful. It starts as an immediate sharp pain then dulls into this persistent throbbing that is at first as fierce as the initial hit. But then it ebbs away in painful little pulses. And the worst part is you feel it in your stomach as well, and at times you may vomit.
The only sensation I can compare it to is stubbing your toe on a sharp steel corner running full speed and barefoot.
Have you ever tried to stick something up your but just out of curiosity?
Darknessthesorcer:
Yes. I tried to stick a magic marker and my finger up there out of curiosity. I never did that again. It felt really wrong.
Why do you so often interpret basic niceness as flirting?
LexGlad:
Most men receive so little daily kindness that any attention is considered out of the ordinary.
Why do you always nod at each other?
Commodore-K9:
I acknowledge that you are a complex organism living through your own struggles in a chaotic, hectic and unfair world and I mean you no trouble bro.
Electrical-Bother942:
Show of respect.
Is queefing a turn off?
Shaggarooney:Not a turn off exactly, but it is hilarious and laughing a lot can take you out of the sexy mood.
Snakedoctor404: No not good or bad… might get a new pet name Queen Laqueefa in the bedroom in good fun.
Why draw d***s on everything?
beatokko:
It’s an old human tradition. There are [private parts] depictions and sculptures thousands of years old.
The richness of a culture has its roots in traditions.
So there, we’ll draw d***s on the bathroom door for the following generations to behold the beauty of reproduction.
The_Juggler17:
Pretty sure it’s a primal instinct, a natural and ancient behavior.
When we can’t think of anything else, draw d***s on it.
Why do you have to smell your hands after touching IT?
Smooth-Monkey:
We also like to smell things before we eat them. Should be self explanatory. Simply to make sure it’s still good for consumption I suppose.
twatchops:
To see if it smells.
Do men really care if a women has no makeup on and has her hair in a ponytail? When I go out to run errands I really couldn’t care less about how “girly” I look, more about how quick I can get done so I can go home and netflix binge. But sometimes I feel like I look like a pile of garbage just because I have a pair of jeans and a loose tshirt on.
Haboob_AZ:
I don’t care if you don’t wear makeup or do your hair. Natural beauty is just fine with me.
If you want to wear makeup for other events (dates, just wanting to look extra gorgeous) that’s fine too.
Sometimes that IDGAF look can actually be pretty hot. Weird how it works.
Do most men enjoy having their balls played with even in a nonsexual context?
mousicle:
I would prefer no touching of the bits or that general area unless you want to get frisky. Blue balls aren’t pleasant.
I read and hear a lot about how tough it is to be man in American society, but do you ever feel thankful, for any reason, to have been born a man? I don’t mean concerning biological stuff — like being happy not to have to deal with periods or child birth or chaffing under your b***s when you exercise. I mean in a larger societal context.
EDIT: I feel like I should have phrased the question differently. What I am asking for is, *why are you grateful for being a man?* I very much appreciate the issues of being a man in American society and am keen to discuss this topic in another venue, here I am curious as to what you are *glad* about. I know this is a tricky question to ask, and the phrasing of the question for the thread made it seem like a good place to ask tricky questions.
skullturf:
There are some things I like about being a man. One is: I can go into a random bar by myself, and just relax and have a beer, and it’s unlikely that anyone will be weird or creepy to me. I mean, it could happen, and once on a rare occasion it does, but the vast majority of the time, it doesn’t.
I get to be “neutral”. I get to be just “some guy”.
How do men deal with break ups differently?? I cry, eat tons of ice cream, and jam sad music, watch heartbreaking movies. Guys just seem to handle them differently.
JustMid:
I think everyone handles it differently regardless of gender.
