53 Bold Questions Women Wish They Could Ask Men—No Filters, No Judgments
“Is blue balls” a real thing, or just some BS made up by h***y guys to convince their girlfriends to put out?
onetwo3four5:
They don’t turn blue, but it can get uncomfortable to be turned on without release. It’s certainly not dangerous.
When you swim and stuff, do your balls float? What about your d**k? Because [breasts] float.
thardoc:
No more buoyant than the rest of me, any buoyancy they may have is too little to notice. Usually in colder water it all shrinks anyway.
Does it annoy you, that women talk about your d**k size (in vivid detail) with all their friends after they sleep with you?
Electrical-Bother942:
Yes. It’s not your right to share personal details about someone just because you slept with them.
Why do you act like you’re really into a girl and then ghost her?
Shaggarooney:
Because I was really into you, and then you did something that I found to be horrific.
OR
I was really young, and really into you until I had you and then lost all interest because the challenge was gone. Yes, I was that guy for a year or two in my teenage years. I don’t know why I was like that, but I was. Weird as think back and some of those girls were really great. I don’t know what was going on in my head at the time.
One of the bigger guys I guess: what is it like being bigger than most people around you? How much do you think about that physical advantage?
porkborg:
I’m 6’5″ — not wide but slim, athletic build, reasonably tone, nice shoulders, etc.
I hated being tall as a teen. I was insecure about it and hated standing out.
But as I got into my 20s (and my acne cleared up) I noticed so many women flirting with me every time I went out with my buddies. It was so easy to get girls’ numbers. I went from an insecure virgin to a stud quickly, and had close to a hundred partners by the time I got married.
Now, 20 years later, I’m newly divorced and dating again at 51. I’ve aged well — nice hair, still fit, dress well, etc — but my height is definitely a blessing. I know it sounds terrible, but when I’m standing around other men who are mostly much shorter, I feel like a god next to them.
Once and for all…does it bother you guys when we fart in front of you??
RabidusUnus:
We honestly don’t care, at all.
ImpossibleMindset:
It would make me very unhappy if someone I admired felt uncomfortable just being a living thing while around me.
Why won’t you talk to me about sports? I love basketball and I like discussing the games, but I feel like you guys don’t take me seriously.
anonymous:
From purely anecdotal, personal experience, many women who are into sports tend to be into them more superficially. Like ‘we won, great!’ (I’m simplifying for effect here), rather than the type of conversations I have on sports with other guys, which tend to go along the lines of ‘the right back had a shit game, good thing they subbed him off, the winger was running him ragged… what do you think of Liverpool’s new pressing tactics?’ or something like that. Guys tend to approach sports (and things in general?) more analytically and often assume that women don’t; I’m sure there are women who watch sports (specifically football) the same way I do but I’m yet to meet one, even though I’ve met many who watch it regularly.
Why are guys cool with the idea of two women having s*x, but two men, you are all like….”aw hell no!”?
ezralv:
because we find women attractive and men gross.
IHOP007:
I think it is because most chicks find they can understand and appreciate the attractiveness and beauty of other women. Guys for the most part don’t have the capacity to see other guys that way.
Why are so many of you afraid of receiving a**l, even the indelicate mention of it?
As a general rule, I try to match the tonal quality of the person speaking to me and being a relatively attractive adult female I get my fair share of sexual remarks. I do my best to make it abundantly clear that I’m 100% okay with raunchy talk too, but that I’ll only go so far as the other person does and inside of my spouse’s boundaries. So I’ll get a remark that’s something like, “Hey, how about I shoot my seed inside of you over in the bathroom, bb? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)” and imo that’s pretty graphic tonally speaking, especially for an introduction to a woman who’s openly wearing a wedding ring. I feel that it’s fair for me to let the raunchiness rip at this point. I’ll banter back with something like, “Right after I get done flowering open your pink boip***y with both hands. You can shoot it in my mouth while I ride my husband. ;)”
