“79 Heartbreaking Reasons Many Walked Away: What Made Them Say ‘I Can’t Marry You’?”
#55
When he consistently chose alcohol over me. And then when he got sober, the abuse I associated with his alcohol use was actually just his personality. Too bad I already had a kid by him at that point. Im thankful every day though that I didn’t marry him and complicate things even more.
#56
When I found out he had an account on seekingarrangements.com (sugar baby website), I said it’s sad that the women 30 years your junior only would spend time with you if you pay them.
He said “everything in life has a price, my dear”.
Btw he is a 48 year old economics professor at a major university and a predator I came to find, actually got kicked out for a sexual scandal but hired at a new university. Still employed.
Crazy how you can be fooled and in the dark so long with people like this.
#57
He wouldn’t apologize in a fight. If I was upset about something, it was my issue. He wouldn’t take any responsibility or acknowledge my side. He was just really good at talking over me and turning the conversation around where I had to be the one to say sorry. Really didn’t like that when I was the one upset with him in the first place for what I consider to be valid reasons.
#58
When we finally got into deep talks about how we viewed our futures and I realized our goals didn’t align.
#59
When he got extremely heated over the smallest disagreements.
When he told me he had 5 figure credit card debt after years of dating and that his family wants to borrow money from us.
#60
When he told me he didn’t believe in marriage, it’s just a piece of paper. He also said “if marriage is what you want, I’ll step out of the way. I won’t hold you back from getting what you want.”.
