“79 Heartbreaking Reasons Many Walked Away: What Made Them Say ‘I Can’t Marry You’?”
#61
We’d been hanging out 11 months. We never discussed exclusivity. But we spent so much time together it didn’t matter. We went to visit his family often. His mom would tell me how she wanted more grandkids. But he canceled our plans one weekend to be a wedding date to someone else. That’s when I decided he wasn’t ever going to commit. He was more than 10 years older than me. I realized he wasn’t married because he didn’t want to be.
#62
When I was feeling s*icidal and she said “It’s your choice if you do that, your brain doesn’t actually make you do it” and offered no support. Which is ironic because I helped her out of feeling s*icidal when we were friends, but she couldn’t be there for me while we were almost a year into the relationship.
Thankfully I have a much better girlfriend who listens to me.
#63
When I couldn’t picture in my mind the two of us old together.
#64
When they openly admitted they didn’t believe in compromise or teamwork in relationships. That’s a big red flag for me.
#65
When he told me all he wanted to do was have some fun with me. Didn’t want to go down the serious path. I started down a new path, one that didn’t have him. Six months later I was told by a good friend that he’d been in a state of depression because I would no longer talk to him. Nope nope. I crossed that bridge and set it alight.
#66
We had vastly different ideas of how our life would turn out and specifically how she thought my life would turn out. Im very career orientated and wanted to grow my career, she wanted me to quit my job so that I would make less money than her because she didn’t think it was fair that my industry paid more than hers.
