“79 Heartbreaking Reasons Many Walked Away: What Made Them Say ‘I Can’t Marry You’?”
I feel and look so much better a few months on now. I walked away with nothing, gave up my job and moved back to my parents and I’m still in a better place than I was.
#73
9/11. Even though we aren’t American, I was horrified and in tears. He was pissy because he didn’t have any cigarettes and said ‘why should I care? I didn’t know those people.’.
#74
He couldn’t see a future with me in it. At all. Said he wanted a life apart from me. Which is fine to have separate friends. I actually encouraged that. But he didn’t want to build with me.
Now I have a bf who talks about a future with me every day.
#75
Two occasions-
1) met the family (complete trash)
2) she wanted to have an open relationship down the road.
#76
We were highschool sweethearts and have been together for seven years. At that point the next step in the relationship was get married or break up. We got invited to a close friends wedding (former classmate as well) and we talked about it. And we both a agreed that us getting married was not in the cards at all or not so soon. Then we went silent and I thought damn, I think we will never get married, I dont feel it, I dont want it.
Months later, we broke up.
I am engaged now with a different person. I really want to marry him.
#77
He had a grudge against the world. He was always nice to me and to be honest showered me with a lot of words of affirmation, but he was quick to judgment and held onto his opinions of people very tightly. We would not have worked anyway because of some of his political views, but I think he saw us getting married immediately after college and I was not about the life that he wanted.
