“79 Heartbreaking Reasons Many Walked Away: What Made Them Say ‘I Can’t Marry You’?”
#31
When we’d agree to put an argument to rest under the assumption it had been resolved, but then days/weeks later he would bring it up again out of no where or bring it up as ammo in a new argument we were having.
Long story short I was always the enemy, and anything I said in my defence was seen as a lie or used against me, and a wife is not an enemy.
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#32
When he told me jokingly that his mom had asked him: “Why do you keep dating [my race] girls and diluting your blood?”
Marriage is hard enough without a racist MIL and clueless momma’s boy.
#33
He forgot to tell me he was in a relationship.
Valuable information.
#34
When she told me that I was being “selfish” for wanting to go to the gym and work out.
And no, it wasn’t because of anything specific on a particular day that was more pressing at that moment. It was just in general; me wanting to do something for my own health instead of just devoting every second of my free time to her was “selfish.”.
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#35
He made a huge deal out of a small disagreement, and I saw how he handled conflict—totally immature and unwilling to compromise.
#36
Strangely enough, it wasn’t when he said, “I don’t know if I’ll *ever* be ready to marry you.”
It was when I brought up him saying that at a later time and he said, “I never said that!”.
#37
Too negative. I myself struggle with being critical and rant-y and they were a million times worse. I can’t be around someone who has a very exaggerated version of my really bad qualities because they get worse and more annoying over time.
