Inside ‘Virgin Island’: The Provocative New Show Where 12 Singles Battle to Shed Their Virginity on Camera
Just when you thought reality TV had exhausted every possible angle—from dating disasters and survival show mishaps to secret millionaires playing house—Channel 4 throws us a curveball with Virgin Island. The show, which premiered last Monday, features 12 brave (or maybe just very bold) adults tackling intimacy head-on in a steamy Croatian retreat. Their mission? To shed their virginity through a series of raunchy, deeply personal challenges that have viewers squirming and slapping the “skip” button faster than ever. Critics call it “absolutely excruciating” and “a new low” for British TV—but beneath the awkward glances and therapy sessions lies a provocative question: can deep fears around intimacy really be unpacked on prime-time reality TV without feeling exploitative? Or is this just another season of emotional rollercoaster rides, except with a lot more nerves and a little less clothing?
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Channel 4’s latest reality TV production, Virgin Island, has been slammed by viewers after debuting last Monday (May 12). Some have branded the show as “absolutely excruciating” and a “new low” for British television.
The six-part series follows 12 adults, aged between 22 and 30, who have never had intimate relations. Set at a retreat in Croatia, the show challenges them to confront their fears around intimacy through a variety of tasks—many of them raunchy and deeply personal—all in a bid to lose their virginity.
- Channel 4’s reality show ‘Virgin Island’ features 12 singles facing raunchy challenges to lose their virginity.
- The show uses ‘surrogate partner therapy’ under sexologists to help contestants overcome intimacy fears.
- Sexologists argue the show offers authentic depictions of intimacy, but viewers slammed it as “exploitative.”
“It feels wrong to be watching this,” one user wrote on X. “This is so exploitative. I can’t even imagine being one of them right now.”
New British reality show Virgin Island was labeled a “new low” by viewers after its debut last Monday
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As Bored Pandapreviously reported, the show involves the guidance of sexologists and the use of “surrogate partner therapy,” a controversial treatment in which a person acts as an intimate partner to the patient, employing a range of therapeutic experiences of various levels of intensity, from relaxation to intimate contact.
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The opening episode introduced viewers to participants like 29-year-old receptionist Taylor, who broke down in tears during an eye contact exercise with another contestant, and 28-year-old Zac, who jumped at the chance of having intimacy with his assigned surrogate during their first session.
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Anticipating the backlash, Channel 4 has insisted that the show ultimately aims to create a supportive and therapeutic environment—a claim that was thoroughly rejected by viewers.
“When you couldn’t think TV would get any lower, then pops along Virgin Island,” one user wrote. “That was excruciating to watch.”
The show aims to provide viewers with a more realistic and healthy depiction of what intimacy looks like
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At the heart of Virgin Island is the work of sexologists Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, co-founders of the Somatica Institute.
Both professionals defend the show’s concept, arguing that mainstream depictions of s*x are far more damaging than what Virgin Island could ever portray.
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“The quality of s*x on television is abysmal,” Hirschman said. “It’s like three kisses up against the wall, pulling off the pants, sticking it in, and then it’s over.”
For the sexologists, the show serves as a chance to portray “realistic and connected” intimate experiences on television, framing the production as a much-needed paradigm shift.
“If they portrayed s*x that was more authentic and at a pace people actually experience, it might be a boon to have that much s*x on television,” Hirschman continued.
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Touching on the controversy surrounding the usage of surrogate partner therapy, a process critics argue should not be filmed for entertainment purposes, Hirschman stated that it is an essential part of the show, as it goes hand-in-hand with their goal of showing authentic relationships.
“That authenticity is what actually prepares people to have real relationships out in the world,” she explained. “It’s not just trying to force something.”
The show comes at a moment when virginity among young adults is at an all-time high, as per study
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The controversial therapy involves a client, a surrogate, and a therapist. The therapist is there to ensure boundaries are respected, and emotional developments are handled professionally, especially if the client ends up developing real feelings towards their “partner.”
“If feelings become developed, the therapist is available to talk the client through whatever feelings they have around it,” Hirschman added.
