23 Uncomfortable Truths Everyone Ignores But Deep Down Knows Are True

Ever notice how the simpler ideas of right and wrong we cling to as kids somehow get tossed out the window by real life? Yeah, life isn’t exactly a fairy tale where everyone gets a happy ending or karma is just waiting to give the bad guys their due. It turns out, reality’s a bit messier — good people face tough breaks, bad folks sail right past consequences, and sometimes, things just seem… random. So what happens when over 31,000 Reddit users spill the “hard to swallow” truths they’ve learned from the school of life? Spoiler: It’s eye-opening, brutally honest, and maybe a little uncomfortable. Ready to peel back the curtain on these raw realities and question everything you thought you knew? Let’s dive in and see what the real world’s got to say. LEARN MORE

Article created by: Gabija Palšytė

Our perspective on the world is shaped every day by everything we consciously and subconsciously see and experience. Some core ideas form in our minds that are rarely challenged later in life. But they should be. The general idea of ‘right and wrong’ that we see so often growing up doesn’t really continue into the real world. Bad things happen to good people, bad people often face no repercussions for their actions: reality is harsh.

One Reddit user wanted to see what other ‘hard to swallow’ truths people have already learned. Over 31k people had something to say, sharing things that are difficult to accept, but are the actual reality once you step out of the dream world.

Bored Panda picked out the top raw and honest answers that are better to learn later than never. Scroll down and upvote your favorites, and make sure to share your thoughts; maybe you disagree with some of them? And if we’re still missing out on some ‘harsh realities’, please tell us in the comments below!

Woman sitting by a lake with a distressed expression, reflecting on harsh realities that no one wants to accept. Some people just can’t be saved, you could give them every benefit in the world and they still could choose to throw it all away and you can’t do anything about it.

IfTimeCouldDie , RODNAE Productions Report

Person sitting barefoot on floor against concrete wall reflecting harsh realities of life and emotional struggle. Some people just don’t get a happy ending, some people never find happiness or satisfaction. People tell you that there is light at the end of the tunnel but for some people there isn’t, they never get to see any light, just darkness.

Kermitting_OOF-Side , Pixabay Report

A woman and man having a serious conversation outside near houses illustrating harsh realities people face. Sometimes, YOU are the problem in a relationship. And if people keep on leaving you, it may well be your fault. Even if you don’t feel like it is.

anon , RODNAE Productions Report

A large fallen tree crushing a parked Audi car illustrating harsh realities people often avoid accepting. There is no karma. Bad things happen to good people. Bad people do bad things that never catch up to them. Good people do good things that screw them over in the long run. It’s all random.

Coach_Bolton , Mike B Report

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Person with long hair sitting on a stump facing a sunset, reflecting on harsh realities and insightful thoughts outdoors. You will likely be lost to history. In just a few centuries, nobody will remember or even knew you existed. Sad, I know, but you just have to accept it.

Timyoy3 , Pixabay Report

Person holding face in hand, sitting indoors near plant, illustrating harsh realities and emotional struggle. Mistakes do define you. The little ones don’t, but if you make a big mistake, it will alter your life to an extent. Saying that they don’t matter is a lie that will prevent you from diagnosing life problems later down the line.

CaptinHavoc , Liza Summer Report

Four men sitting on a hillside, sharing moments amid nature, illustrating people sharing harsh realities and insights. You don’t always keep the good friends you meet. But that doesn’t mean you can’t make more later on down the road!

viking162 , Matheus Ferrero Report

Person sitting alone on wooden dock reflecting on harsh realities of life by calm water under cloudy sky. People refuse to accept that this IS the reality. Lots of time and money is spent cushioning that blow.

We live here. We live now.

Best get used to it.

Wyrdeone , Keenan Constance Report

A person sitting on a bench holding their head, reflecting on harsh realities that people often avoid accepting. Pain is inescapable. Not even acknowledging that pain is inevitable and preparing for it ahead of time can lessen it.

You will be taken by surprise, you will be hurt, you will not enjoy it, you will not be able to numb it, and there is nothing you can do except take it on the chin.

Cryptids4Sale , Inzmam Khan Report

Two people sitting back to back on a bench outdoors, illustrating harsh realities and emotional distress. People can just simply fall out of love with you for no reason.

You fretting about whether it’s you or something else or the investment is basically you giving them the reasons to strengthen the reason why they stopped loving you. When they could very much not have a reason at all, feelings and priorities can change.

anon , RODNAE Productions Report