“Are You Following Bad Advice? Here Are 50 Common ‘Wisdoms’ That Might Be Hurting You!”
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#34
All the “advice” (rules) around respect.
“Respect is earned, not given.”
“Respect your elders.”
“Respect your higher-ups.”
Objectively, these are right. But they do not take into account the fact that, guess what, the world is not fair. People love to say “the world isn’t fair” and “life isn’t fair” to dismiss complaining, but fail to address it when it isn’t an inconvenience to them. Anyway, that being said, the three “advices” (rules) above fail to take into account:
1) person in position of power ≠ authority on any other position
2) experienced person ≠ respectful person
3) inexperienced person ≠ child.
#35
As of late the whole advice to “spend today because there is no future”. people who spout such rhetoric are beyond foolish. not looking forward to having to take care of them later in life because they done f****d up.
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#36
Be the bigger person. Sometimes this is good advice but generally it means bowing down to someone who wants to hurt you.
#37
“It doesn’t hurt to ask.”
It can absolutely hurt to ask.
It can be a sign that you have no respect or care for someone’s position or situation and that you may thoughtlessly be putting them in a situation where they need to tell you something you should already know.
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#38
Red wine is good for your heart. Smh. The American Heart Association and many other bodies, WHO asks increasingly government medical bodies of different countries all over the world, say that you should drink NO alcohol for heart health.