“Beyond Boundaries: A Paralyzed Man Reveals the Surprising Secrets to Intimacy with His Fiancé”
When it comes to understanding intimacy, you might think the limitations of a wheelchair could put a damper on things. But Amber Cogbill and Neven Hart are here to shake that assumption—and maybe even a few misconceptions—out of the park! Going viral on TikTok, this interabled couple opened up about their unique approach to intimacy, sharing a candid look at their life and how they’ve navigated their relationship post-accident. They’ve turned what many would shy away from discussing into an empowering narrative that leaves viewers thankful for a peek into their world. So what secrets do they hold about keeping the spark alive despite physical challenges? If you’re curious to learn more about how they redefine intimacy, you won’t want to miss this enlightening conversation! LEARN MORE.
An interabled couple went viral after candidly explaining how they did the “deed.” Taking to their TikTok page on September 20, Amber Cogbill and Neven Hart, who uses a wheelchair, opened up about their intimacy. Sharing an informative video, the pair left many people grateful for the importunity to learn.
“We know that there’s young people going through the exact same thing that we are, and we want to be here to educate them and let them know that things are still possible,” Amber started.
Neven went on to explain that before having sex, he injects a medication called Trimix into the base of his penis. Within five minutes, he becomes fully erect.
In the video, Neven went on to reveal that the second part of the process to get ready to fool around involved “positioning.”
An interabled couple went viral after candidly explaining how they did the “deed”
Image credits: amber.cogbill
The couple clarified that just because Neven was paralyzed, he wasn’t a “pillow princess,” contrary to popular beliefs, adding: “That is far from the truth.”
Neven and Amber further highlighted the rehab facility that helped them finding different techniques for getting frisky.
The pair said that they used a sex aid called IntimateRider, a device that helps improving sexual mobility and “enables partners with disabilities to have an active sex life.”
Image credits: amber.cogbill
A slew of people were appreciative of the vulnerable revelations made public, as a TikTok user commented: “Is my bf paralyzed? No. Did I stay because I’ve always been curious how? Yes.”
A person wrote: “Love how Neven was pushing ~the intimate rider~ like a swing at the end of the video lmao it’s like a fidget toy.”
Someone else penned: “Y’all are awesome to explain this stuff.”
Taking to their TikTok page, Amber Cogbill and Neven Hart, who uses a wheelchair, opened up about their intimacy
Image credits: ambercogbill03
“As a nurse thanks,” a netizen added. “I’ll recommend your videos.”
A separate individual chimed in: “I have never seen this topic on the internet, this is so important. Thanks for sharing.”
Despite being in their early 20s, the pair has already overcome a lot together after a dirt bike accident that left Neven paralyzed two years ago, Buzzfeed reported on Wednesday (October 9).
Image credits: ambercogbill03
Amber told Buzzfeed: “We are unsure of exactly how he crashed because no one saw it actually happen and he knocked himself out.
“Neven is paralyzed from his T6 vertebrae and below. The T6 vertebrae is located mid torso, he cannot feel or move anything below his injury.”
Sharing an informative video, the pair left many people grateful for the importunity to learn
Image credits: amber.cogbill
The couple, based in Southern California, USA, admitted that even though Neven can’t feel his penis, they wanted people to know that sex and intimacy is possible and enjoyable.
Amber recalled: “We decided to share our explainer on how we have sex because when Neven first got injured, that topic was one of the main things that we wondered about and wanted to know if it was still possible.
Image credits: ambercogbill03
“Unfortunately, there was no information on the internet geared toward this, and no one was willing to answer such personal questions.
“Knowing what we know now, we are posting this information so we can help other young couples or individuals who are going through the same thing.”
Research show that people with physical disabilities tend to have less frequent sexual activity compared to their non-disabled peers, but the differences are complex.
You can watch the video video below:
@ambercogbill03 How does a paralyzed person do the deed? #questionoftheday #fyp #paraplegic #paralyzed #loveyouguys♥️ #wheelchair #wheelchairlife #spinalcordinjury #spinalcordinjurysurvivor #spinalcordinjuryrecovery #fiance #engaged #wedding #fylpシviralシ #educational #motivation #howto #dirtbike #moto #racing #foryoupage #craighospital @Neven ♬ original sound – Amber & Neven Hart
@ambercogbill03 Are babies still possible for someone paralyzed? #questionoftheday #fyp #paraplegic #paralyzed #loveyouguys♥️ #wheelchair #wheelchairlife #spinalcordinjury #spinalcordinjurysurvivor #spinalcordinjuryrecovery #fiance #engaged #wedding #fylpシviralシ #educational #motivation #howto #dirtbike #moto #racing #foryoupage #craighospital @Neven ♬ original sound – Amber & Neven Hart
Studies suggest that people with disabilities are often perceived as less sexual, which can affect their sexual experiences and relationships.
For example, a study found that 43% of people with physical disabilities reported being sexually active, compared to 70% in the general population.
However, factors like lack of access to sexual health resources and societal stigma also play a significant role in these disparities.
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