“BFF Betrayal: How One Woman’s Refusal to Pay for a Birthday Bash Set Off a Shocking Chain Reaction”
Throwing a party can be a delightful adventure, but let’s be honest—it’s also a recipe for budgetary chaos if you’re not careful! We all know the unwritten rule: unless it’s a wedding or some massive milestone, asking for cash to cover party expenses tends to rub people the wrong way. Such was the case for one mother, who, perhaps living in an alternate universe where party etiquette doesn’t apply, pushed her best friend for financial help with her son’s birthday bash. Talk about a cookie crumbling in a way that threatens to take a whole friendship down with it! How do you navigate the tightrope of celebration without falling into the pit of awkwardness? Stick around as we unravel this story and dive into expert tips from children’s party planner, Michelle McKenna Shuey, on how to keep your kid’s birthday fun—and your wallet intact. LEARN MORE.When throwing a party, it’s important to realistically assess one’s budget. Unless itâs a wedding or a grand jubilee, asking or politely implying for money to cover the celebration’s expenses can be considered rude. For birthdays, especially kidsâ ones, the norm is to bring gifts instead of extending an envelope with a few bills inside.
Unfortunately, this mom didnât get the memo and still persisted that her best friend helps out with her sonâs party costs. When faced with rejection, she took matters into her own hands, putting their friendship in danger.Â
Scroll down to find the full story and a conversation with its author and children’s event planner Michelle McKenna Shuey from The Effortless Affair, who kindly agreed to give a few tips on managing a child’s birthday party budget.