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But if anyone offers to pitch in or help out, it’s completely fine to graciously accept, says Shuey. “Maybe they want to bring a dish or help with decorations—that can be a really sweet way to collaborate without anyone feeling obligated. At the end of the day, it’s all about making the day special for your child, and that doesn’t have to mean going overboard on costs or putting pressure on anyone else. Just focus on creating joyful memories!”
“The best party is the one that reflects your child and your budget”
While parents want their kids to have the most special day on their birthday and feel enticed to throw an elaborate celebration, she believes that they shouldn’t cave into societal pressure. The kid will still feel special without an over-the-top party if it’s done right!
“Kids just want your love and attention, and as long as you’re there, celebrating them in a way that feels right for your family, that’s what truly matters. Sure, those Kardashian-style parties are stunning and fun to look at, but let’s be real—that’s not realistic for 99% of families!
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The best party is the one that reflects your child and your budget. Whether it’s a small backyard picnic or a themed party in your living room, what makes it magical is the love and effort you put into it, not how fancy it is. Trust me, your little one will cherish the memories, no matter how simple or grand!”
