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“An important takeaway is the value of open communication while drafting an estate plan,” he added. “Addressing family concerns early can prevent misunderstandings and disputes.”
It’s not unusual for people to write letters that are meant to be read after their death
Sperling told Bored Panda that it’s common for people to leave letters for their loved ones. “These letters often serve as a way to express sentiments that may have been difficult to articulate during life, explain decisions made in the estate plan, or share final messages of love and guidance,” he said.
But added that letters can be a “double-edged sword”. “While some letters bring closure and comfort, others might inadvertently stir conflict, especially if they reveal long-held secrets or contain emotionally charged explanations,” warned Sperling.
Tammy McDonald is a life coach who specializes in grief and loss. She recommends that people plan ahead and gift their loved ones with a letter that they can treasure forever. McDonald suggests including things like ‘I love you’. Or an apology for leaving them. You can also ask for forgiveness, give forgiveness, release them to live their lives, comfort them, and of course, say goodbye.
“The letter isn’t about you or your death. It is about your loving your family and wanting to care for them even after you are gone,” said McDonald. The life coach says you should be mindful of what you write, and warns against leaving negative messages that could cause pain or confusion.
