“Deception Unraveled: The Shocking Truth Behind a 9-Month Pregnancy Hoax!”
The denial might also be further fuelled by the shame that follows the loss. “Women often tend to blame themselves when something like this occurs. Partly, this is due to societal pressure and partly due to a need to control their bodies. If they are to blame for what occurred, they can prevent a subsequent loss. This may provide the illusion of control, however it can also lead to shame and guilt.”
So while others might see the illusion of pregnancy as a deception tactic, often it’s not. It’s the psychological consequences of immense trauma, grief, and loss. “It likely represents a woman’s attempts to cope with this internal struggle,” suggests Coleman.
“She needs to hear that her grief is valid, and she has a right to feel all her feelings”
After truth comes out, it’s essential that the woman receive compassion and understanding. “All her feelings, even those that may appear irrational, should be validated with sensitivity to her unique emotional and physical needs. Empathic listening from friends and family is essential. She needs to hear that her grief is valid, and she has a right to feel all her feelings. Everyone will grieve differently. Grief is a unique experience, so asking a woman what she needs and providing it is essential,” explains Coleman. During such a challenging time, she will likely need practical help too, so assisting her with day-to-day tasks can be invaluable.
Seeking out to professionals can be another great step towards healing. ” A therapist can provide a place for a woman to process her trauma and grief without judgment. A professional can help validate her experience and navigate the complex emotions that she may be experiencing. Trauma treatments like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) can help process her trauma,” suggests the perinatal mental health treatment specialist.
