Jennifer Lopez Drops Shocking Bedroom Confession on Stage—Takes Unexpected Jab at Ben Affleck

Ever wonder what it takes to keep a global superstar up all night? No, really—when Jennifer Lopez decides to drop the velvet rope separating her stage persona from her private life, we all lean in a little closer, don’t we? It’s not every Monday that you get a masterclass in “how J.Lo likes it” sprinkled between her chart-toppers under the Italian summer sky. Is there a secret formula for passion—tempo, temperature, a pinch of naughtiness—that even Google’s algorithms couldn’t optimize? Because if J.Lo’s confessing her moods and methods, you know things are about to get wild in more ways than a lyric or two. So, eligible bachelors, take notes (and maybe dim the lights)—it’s time to find out what’s got even the tabloids blushing. Want all the details, every cheeky confession, and a hint of “anti-love” shade? LEARN MORE.

Listen up, eligible bachelors – Jennifer Lopez has just laid out how she ‘likes it’ in the bedroom.

The New York-born songstress, 55, decided to share her ‘naughty’ side with fans at Italy’s Lucca Summer Festival earlier this week.

While taking to the stage on Monday (21 July), J.Lo informed fans about what her perfect set-up for a night of passion looks like.

Discussing the tempo, temperature and tunes she prefers in the bedroom, she revealed that her ‘different moods’ usually dictate what goes down between the sheets.

Before she belted out her song ‘Moments In Love’, Lopez reportedly dished the dirt on her sex life – and I’m sure the thousands of people in the audience were listening quite intently.

“I have to be honest with you, sometimes I get in different moods at night,” she said, according to The US Sun. “I don’t know about you but I do… and sometimes I like it hard.”

As you can see, she didn’t beat around the bush.

The singer shared her sexual preferences on stage in Italy (Ricardo Rubio/Europa Press via Getty Images)

Lopez then continued: “Other days, I am feeling a little romantic. You put on candles and soft music. On those days, I like it real slow.

“But there’s other days…maybe because it’s a new kind of time for me, maybe because it’s ­summertime and it’s hot outside. I feel a little more naughty.”

The crowd were obviously going wild at this point and Lopez cheekily added with a laugh: “You ever get that feeling?

“Where you feel like being naughty? On those days, I like it real fast.”

The ‘Love Don’t Cost A Thing’ singer is believed to still be single following her messy split with former husband Ben Affleck, 52, in August 2024.

She filed for divorce from the actor on the two-year anniversary of their wedding (ouch) and the dissolution of their marriage was finalised in January this year.

The pair got back together in July 2021, nearly two decades after the ‘Bennifer’ love story first began in 2002.

It wasn’t meant to be though and the couple called their engagement off in 2004 – and they didn’t have much better luck the second time round either, as their relationship hit the rocks two years after they headed down the aisle.

The silver lining is though, the breakup has at least given Lopez some inspiration for some new music, and she performed a song which is seemingly laden with jabs at Affleck while on stage in Italy.

Lopez’s new tunes are reportedly inspired by her breakup with Ben Affleck (Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic)

The track, titled ‘Up All Night’, sees her brag about ‘dancing on somebody’ and ‘living her best life’.

She sings: “I’m up all night, dancing on somebody, living my best life / I bet you wish that you were by my side / I got tired of you breaking me down / Look at me now.”

A source told The US Sun that Lopez has ‘written and recorded enough tracks for a whole new album’, while adding that the songs are ‘inspired by what she went through during her relationship with Ben’.

The mother-of-two is currently on the road for her ‘Up All Night’ tour, of which she has 11 shows left to perform.

She previously told fans she wouldn’t be playing her famous love songs at her shows, instead vowing to belt out her ‘anti-love songs’ isntead.

Lopez said: “I wanted to do the songs that were like, ‘Get out of here! I hate you!’ I’m just kidding. No, I’m not…”

I’ll bet Affleck is really hoping she was having a laugh about the contents of her set list.

Footage of Lopez’s performance at the Cook Music Fest in Tenerife has also just gone viral, thanks to her X-rated moves on stage.