Plus-Size Model’s Mid-Flight Confrontation With Flight Attendant Uncovers Shocking Truths About Fat-Shaming at 30,000 Feet
Imagine settling in for what should be a routine cross-country flight, only to be handed a ten-minute, unsolicited “health lecture” from a flight attendant about your body. Plus-sized model and body-positive crusader Tess Holliday recently found herself in just that awkward and frankly outrageous scenario aboard a United Airlines flight. What do you do when someone employed to serve you decides their job includes unsolicited fat-shaming and unsolicited advice? Tess’s story unfolds with a mix of disbelief, resilience, and a sprinkle of the kind of real talk we all wish more people would have. Ready to dive into the mid-air saga that’s got everyone talking? LEARN MORE
Plus-sized model Tess Holliday claimed she was given an unsolicited lecture about her weight during a cross-country flight.
The body-positive activist was aboard a United Airlines aircraft when a flight attendant allegedly made fatphobic comments and a “myriad of other things.”
“You don’t say things like that to people,” said the model.
- Plus-sized model Tess Holliday spoke about an embarrassing incident she recently faced.
- The body-positive activist said the unexpected encounter took place aboard a United Airlines flight.
- A male flight attendant apparently gave her an unwelcome lecture on her weight.
- “You don’t say things like that to people,” said the model.
Tess Holliday claimed she was given an unsolicited lecture about her weight during a cross-country flight
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Sharing the story on social media, Tess revealed that she was traveling with her 9-year-old son Bowie from Tampa, Florida, to Los Angeles, California when the incident took place.
“Today, [a] first class flight attendant lectured me about my body after seeing I was flying with my child,” she wrote online. “10 minutes of unsolicited health tips I didn’t ask for.”
The unexpected turn of events began when the mother decided to use the bathroom in the middle of the flight.
She had accidentally pressed the attendant call button, prompting a male cabin crew member to knock on the door and ask if she needed assistance.
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The two began having a casual and friendly exchange that slowly became awkward for Tess.
She said the male attendant started talking about his “very, very, very large” sister who was “probably” the same size as Tess.
He claimed the sister once took a United Airlines flight, during which the man sitting next to her said she “needed to lose weight.”
The man even filed a complaint with the airline, claiming he “didn’t like that she was large,” the flight attendant allegedly told the model.
The male attendant claimed he had a “very, very, very large” sister who was “probably” the same size as Tess
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Showing no qualms about commenting on a stranger’s appearance, the attendant then told Tess she “needed to lose weight.”
He claimed he noticed she was traveling with a child and she would do something about her weight if she cared about him.
“I didn’t really know what to say,” Tess said about the situation. “Everyone’s like, ‘You should have said or done this.’ I was trying to be polite because I’m traveling with my child.”
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Elsewhere during their conversation, the male attendant apparently claimed his own wife “weighs less than 100 pounds.”
She “doesn’t eat the processed c**p,” he added.
He also claimed the “main issue” with Tess was “her belly region.” And belly fat was a “k***er,” he added.
The crew member also spoke to the body-positive activist about his wife who “weighs less than 100 pounds”
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The Not So Subtle Art Of Being A Fat Girl author found the comments completely inappropriate, with the conversation lasting “entirely too long.”
Yet somehow, their strange encounter did not end there. When the male crew member came out to serve snacks to passengers, he allegedly offered gummies to her son.
“It would keep him from being tempted,” Tess recalled him saying.
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After sharing her “anger and embarrassment” online, fans supported the body positive activist and said the flight attendant should be reported.
“This is complaint worthy behaviour,” one commented online. “It is obnoxious and uncalled for in any capacity but this person was WORKING.”
“You should have said ‘I bet your sister thinks your annoying and rude too,’” one suggested.
“People need to mind their business, their body and their bank account,” one commented online
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Others claimed, “He was trying to save your life.”
“Though he was disrespectful and shouldn’t have said that to you AT ALL. He isn’t wrong. I am a big person myself I don’t want to be this anymore,” said another.
Tess reportedly did not want the male attendant to be fired, but she hoped he would be given sensitive training to interact better with customers.
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