“Shattered Gifts and Family Feuds: Is It Wrong to Withhold Payment After a MIL’s Mishap?”
If the gifter feels hesitant about giving a funny present to their mother-in-law, there are plenty of other options. Here’s a little list that gift experts curated that makes for great ideas for presents for mother-in-law:
- Gifts that help to relax: robes, slippers, spa certificates, luxurious self-care items.
- Meaningful gifts: a framed picture, a custom photo book, a digital frame preloaded with special moments.
- Personalized gifts: custom stationery, monogrammed tote, gourmet treats.
- Gifts that provide experiences: concert tickets, a gift card to a favorite restaurant, a walking tour/food tour, tickets to a play or sports game.
- Gifts that align with her hobbies: gardening tools or plants, hiking gear, crafting supplies.
- Gifts that allow to spend time together: cooking a meal together, taking a shopping trip, going to a flower-arranging class, spending an afternoon at a museum.
- Gifts that are always a great compliment to receive: flowers, chocolates, wine, homemade baked goods, or nice coffee grounds/tea.
Gift experts also named some items to keep clear of to avoid any awkward situations. “Some gifts, though well-intended, can feel impersonal or even a little off the mark,” said Hartung.
“Avoid anything too practical—like household cleaning supplies, vacuums, or workout gear—unless she’s specifically asked for them. Even things like workout classes, diet-related products, or anti-aging products and treatments can send the wrong message. And while a generic “Best Mother-in-Law” mug might be easy, it doesn’t exactly make her feel seen or valued. If you’re unsure what to give, something simple but thoughtful can go a long way. A beautiful plant, fresh flowers, or a handwritten card can still show appreciation without the pressure of finding the “perfect” gift.”
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