“Shocking Discovery: Partner’s Scandalous Sauna Snap with ‘Work Spouse’ Sparks Jealousy and Chaos!”
Image credits: Blake Cheek (not the actual photo)
So when is it okay to have a “work spouse” and where should you draw the line?
“For some, merely using the term is crossing the line,” says Randall. “Defining when something in a relationship crosses the line is decided by the couple,” adds the expert. “Naturally, when the definitions are opposing, compromise and action to ease their partner’s mind is essential for a satisfactory resolution.”
We asked Randall flat-out whether she believes the partner’s story or if there’s something fishy going on. “My gut says, something’s up between the partner and ‘J,’” said the expert. “For me, the reason is clear. And that is the lack of discussion. Their standard staunch reply, ‘you’re paranoid‘ and lack of concern to ease your mind. Why are they opposed to calmly providing you with more details? Uh-uh, guilty!”
She says, considering the circumstances, especially the late-night text exchanges with the colleague, she too would be concerned—if not alarmed. “My bed is not big enough for two wives,” Randall quipped bluntly.
With regards to the person raising the issue of cultural differences, Randall says those are real. “Initially, when we’re in a new relationship or younger, we don’t think about them. As we become nostalgic or in a long-term relationship, some of our childhood ways or beliefs begin to surface,” she explained.
“If either partner is not open to accepting or permitting these beliefs, the differences will become obstacles to a happy relationship. If we push our beliefs or practices as the only way, the relationship be in constant turmoil or end.” However, Randall stressed that the trait of being jealous or suspicious has no cultural boundaries. Perhaps it’s influenced by our surroundings, she says, but it’s an individual trait.
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