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“But, as with most ‘free’ things, there’s a catch (or five),” Jhona added. When it comes to the pros of choosing a venue like this, she says, “Cha-ching! You save on venue costs. That’s money you can throw at an open bar, extra florals, or a honeymoon upgrade (Maldives, anyone?).”
“It’s incredibly sentimental,” she continued. “Imagine saying your vows under the same tree you used to climb as a kid. How sweet is that? For example, take a peek at this high school sweetheart’s wedding held at their old schoolhouse. Talk about full-circle romance!”
The expert says you’re also not bound by strict venue rules. “Want to bring your dog? Go for it. Want to party until 2 a.m.? Why not!”
On the other hand, there are some cons that come along with a venue like this. “It’s a logistical beast. If the place isn’t wedding-ready, you’ll need to rent everything from toilets to twinkle lights,” Jhona noted.
Plus, you’ll be on clean-up duty. “Someone’s got to haul those trash bags at midnight, and spoiler alert: it’s probably you.”
And of course, there might be some family drama. “Aunt Mary might suddenly have opinions about your centerpieces since it’s her garden,” Jhona noted. “Using a family or friend’s venue can be magical, but it’s not without its hiccups. Proceed with caution—and maybe a solid plan B.”
“Your wedding should reflect you as a couple—not be a political battleground over who gets a plus-one”
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“In our real wedding coverage, we’ve chatted with countless brides and grooms who chose to tie the knot at their own home or a family member’s (or friend’s) place,” the expert shared. “Check out Bethany and Ardie’s intimate wedding at home, for example.”
