They Were Best Friends for Over a Decade—Then One Shocking Moment Changed Everything
That was pretty much that for our friendship.
Edit to add: so people can stop freaking, yes, I broke up with him, and it was like 2 and a half decades ago. I’m in a safe and loving marriage.
You know what, recently, like late 2019 I started getting out of the house. I’m a single father of two girls and I’ve focused on them 1000% for a really long time. I finally got out of the house a few times, and I’m serious I went to this friends house a few times for game nights… basically drinking and cards. Till this dude hauled off and hit me for accidentally touching his f*****g hat of all things. What struck me most is that they were hosting and didn’t even offer an apology to me. It was quite insane for me. It was like I was back in highschool. Unf**king real. I gave them ample time to f*****g realize what happened. It took the person 3 months to even realize we are no longer friends on social media and she’s trying to add me back now…. and honestly, it f*****g broke something in me.
An ex-friend of mine was pushing me for inappropriate images under the flimsy guise of “joking”, seemingly out of nowhere. (I was in a three year relationship with my now husband and this ex-friend of mine also had a gf of his own during this whole ordeal. Real classy.)
Now, this wasn’t really something he had done previously in all our years knowing one another, so with that in mind I foolishly tried to give him the benefit of the doubt and just made it unmistakably clear to him that if he didn’t stop behaving like a mindless pervert I’d cut contact and end our friendship.
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