They Were Best Friends for Over a Decade—Then One Shocking Moment Changed Everything
Side note: Alice hase since completely ruined multiple other friendships within our friend group because of her deceit and mistreatment of people. It’s the most vivid example of karma I can think of.
My husband had a best friend. Been friends for over a decade. He asked his best friend to be his best man at our wedding. He agreed. Then a two weeks before our wedding he asked if he could bring a date. We were puzzled as we didn’t think he’d been dating anyone. So we inquired and were like “sure.” Turns out it was one of our mutual friend’s wife he was banging. We all hated her anyway, but him wanting to bring her as his date was the end for my husband. The friend said that not only would he not be the best man, but he wouldn’t come to the wedding if he couldn’t bring the friend’s wife he was cheating with. Yep. That was a big nope. They haven’t been friends since.
I had a friend that I ended things with because she said “Your problem is you have too much humanity. You care about people too much.” I asked her if she cared at all about her fellow human beings and she said “Don’t know them. F**k them. Why do you think I carry a gun?” We were in a heated discussion and I had to take a breather. The absolute look of triumph and joy on her face that she had because she “broke me” to the point that I to step away was enough for me. So it wasn’t so much what she said, but the fact that she was so genuinely happy that she hurt me so badly. Her look was like “Gotcha b***h! I won the argument!” The fact that her winning was more important than our friendship and trying to see each other’s point of view was it for me. She was no one I wanted to know. She admitted to me when we first became friends that she doesn’t have empathy or compassion. I should have listened. I just thought she was being hard on herself. Nope.
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