They Were Best Friends for Over a Decade—Then One Shocking Moment Changed Everything
This is was in May 2018. I never responded, and we haven’t spoken since. She’s made no attempt to contact me. I didn’t respond because her birthday dinner had been planned for a couple of weeks, so she had plenty of time to speak with me about her concerns and reach a resolution, rather than just telling me I’m no longer welcome at any event. The first I knew there was any issue was this message.
TL:DR; I don’t have a car so I’m no longer welcome at my friend’s house.
She did something that really upset me and hurt me. And she responded by telling me ‘it’s no big deal’. So I didn’t want to be friends with someone that could hurt me and then tell me it’s not a big deal. Unfortunate because she was one of my closest friends.
Many times. It’s part of life. You grow and sometimes you grow apart. Sometimes you just don’t have that much in common anymore and the relationship starts to fade. But to answer you question —
I tried to stay friendly with a guy I dated off and on for a few years. We had some pretty epic fights mostly because he was 100% a s*x a****t and that’s all he could thing about. No matter what our conversation was – he’d always revert it back to s*x. I don’t know how many times I told him I wasn’t interested.
I was really stressed out one day and asked him how much the going rate for installing kitchen cabinets was – as I was thinking of buying my condo.
“Well, I’m sure we could work something out, if you know what I mean – like you wearing a French maid’s outfit while I did the work.”
I lost my s**t. Had a lot I was dealing with. He wound up unfriending me on all platforms and we haven’t chatted since.
I was becoming friends with a random guy I met about town a few months ago, until one day we were just hanging out and he let slip an *extremely* transphobic comment. I told him to get out of my apartment and not to contact me again until he learned how to respect others. He never got back to me.
Was having a discussion about mental illness over the phone and OCD was brought up. She said that everyone has OCD in some sort of way. I said that no, it’s a diagnosable illness and while people can have OCD tendencies it doesn’t necessarily mean that person has OCD and that being particular about cleanliness is in no way the same as having the illness. She ended up telling me that I was wrong and couldn’t deal with the fact that I was wrong and needed to be able to accept she was right. Blocked her number immediately and never spoke to her again.
