They Were Best Friends for Over a Decade—Then One Shocking Moment Changed Everything
Then i move back, get a promotion, boyfriend proposes, buy a house, etc. all in about 3 months. And boom this girl never wants to speak to me again. She tells me she hopes I’m happy with him and refuses to sit down and talk to me about it. I reach out and try to explain I’m hurt and I miss her. Get pretty plain responses about no thanks hope your happy with your life.
I was pretty heartbroken. But looking back it was obvious she was jealous of other people’s happiness. She was always complaining about her work, how she can’t afford her apartment, always cycling through boyfriends And heartbroken she couldn’t find someone to love her, and always talking trash about any of our friends success. I realized this was just too much all at once and she hated me for it. She trash talked our mutual friend getting into a stanford masters program. She trash talked our mutual friend who got a great job in San Francisco. She trash talked HER friend who got up and moved across the world for a boy and a lavish life in Ireland (straight movie style no joke haha). She trash talked HER sisters fitness Instagram success (which became a crazy empire so go her her! She’s killin it!)
In the end it’s obvious she feels a lot of competition with those in her life and I’ll never understand that.
Had a “friend”, C, that constantly borrowed money from me in high school, and never once paid me back. She’d promise to pay me back each time, and give me like, whole stories about how she’d pay me back as soon as she got her allowance on Wednesday or whatever, and then if I asked for the money back later, she’d claim she’d already paid me back.
Her begging got so bad that I literally stopped carrying cash with me to school because if I stood up and she heard change jiggling in my pocket, she’d beg for an hour to borrow money until I lent her some. God forbid if she noticed I’d bought myself a snack or anything.
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