They Were Best Friends for Over a Decade—Then One Shocking Moment Changed Everything
I had a friend was on the phone with my brother who was hanging out with me and my ex gf. He was on speaker but didnt know, and asked my brother of he was going to try to sleep with my gf… which all 3 of us heard.
My brother ended that conversation real quick after that and I never spoke to that friend again.
I disclosed to her that I’d been pressured into s*x work by an a*****e partner some years previously. No details, just that exact phrase, “pressured into s*x work”. I said it calmly, and it had come up naturally in the conversation.
She took that opportunity to pry for details on what funds and fluids were exchanged and then told me I wasn’t REALLY pressured into s*x work. I asked her to stop — she was the first person I’d ever told this to, and I was really hurt. She doubled down, saying she didn’t see why she was wrong when I was just making light of people who’d actually been trafficked and stuff.
Things had been rocky before but I really wanted to make the friendship work, such that I took a vacation and flew halfway across the country to visit. I stuck it out the rest of the vacation but honestly I should have just turned the car around then, gotten my stuff, and flown back home early.
F**k you Audrey. When a friend discloses something personal and painful, you support them. Be skeptical if you want to, but you don’t get to f*****g argue about the validity of their trauma.
Not just *a* friendship, but multiple.
I was part of a decent-sized friend circle, everyone hung out and knew each-other. A couple of them decide to invite “a*****e” to hang out with us. A*****e started openly insulting one friend, to his face, for being a homosexual. My girlfriend (God bless her for this) was the first person to stand up for gay friend. A*****e gets all huffy, won’t apologize, and leaves. “Friends” started getting rude with her, myself, and gay friend. They blame the three of us for creating drama (me for backing up both of them,). Gay friend stopped hanging out with everyone because it was clear they were siding with a*****e.
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