They Were Best Friends for Over a Decade—Then One Shocking Moment Changed Everything
Not even an hour after I’m home, I see her Snapchat story of her at her other new friends house drinking and seemingly having a BLAST. not only was it hurtful she did that, but that she didn’t care I would SEE IT.
That was when I decided we were no longer best friends
I still get sad about it because we had been so close since junior high. some people just change for the worst.
I’ve had friends just straight up stop talking to me which I guess is a strong indicator that our friendship is over.
A guy I considered my friend and crush once told me he wouldn’t care if I died. Needless to say, I was heartbroken.
To those of you wondering about the context, here it is. (I posted about it the other day because I’m just now coming to terms with it.)
So, I used to be a nice girl. I had a minute-long crush on any guy who would give me attention, and I was super emo and angsty (partially because of a difficult home life). I was clingy with my friends and really socially awkward. I’ll be Me, and the guy can be N for nice guy. Our school guidance counselor will be GC.
We were both 15. N was a band geek, obsessed with the girls in color guard and the one girl in his band group. While I was more of a shy nice girl who mostly got her feelings out with punk music, N was very extroverted, saying he loved being “constantly surrounded by beautiful women of the color guard who love me” and often gave girls (including me for a time) unsolicited, very tight hugs all the time. He was no catch, but I was looking at the world through rose-colored glasses. All of our mutual friends knew that I liked him by this point, and they had all encouraged me to just go for it already.
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