They Were Best Friends for Over a Decade—Then One Shocking Moment Changed Everything
I ended up taking screenshots of what he was posting and showed the school administration to see if they could help him. He ended up getting suspended for a substantial amount of time and thankfully stopped what he was doing. I am not longer his friend because I can’t take any chances of him finding out and hurting me.
TL:DR
My friend acted like the joker and threatened to k**l people so I told the school and got him suspended.
Call me a snitch all you want, but it would’ve gotten worse if I didn’t do anything.
My one guy friend(24) told me(25F) on NYE that 2020 was the year he was going to f**k me, even if it requires r**e. So I blocked him everywhere and cut all contact. He has since tried to reach me through other ppl to “apologize” but a b***h ain’t got time for that foolery.
Said I was being a bad friend for not wanting to game after my 6th 10 hour shift that week. I was beyond exhausted and desperately wanted to go to bed.
Said friend also called me a “little b***h” because i was worried that I got my then gf pregnant before this incident. That gf later left me for other reasons, so I decided to start making changes without her holding me back. New job, different living arrangement, started doing more outside of the house etc. I didn’t mean for him to be one of the things left behind, but I’ve gotten out of that pit and have much better friends now.
I had a friend was on the phone with my brother who was hanging out with me and my ex gf. He was on speaker but didnt know, and asked my brother of he was going to try to sleep with my gf… which all 3 of us heard.
My brother ended that conversation real quick after that and I never spoke to that friend again.
I disclosed to her that I’d been pressured into s*x work by an a*****e partner some years previously. No details, just that exact phrase, “pressured into s*x work”. I said it calmly, and it had come up naturally in the conversation.
She took that opportunity to pry for details on what funds and fluids were exchanged and then told me I wasn’t REALLY pressured into s*x work. I asked her to stop — she was the first person I’d ever told this to, and I was really hurt. She doubled down, saying she didn’t see why she was wrong when I was just making light of people who’d actually been trafficked and stuff.
Things had been rocky before but I really wanted to make the friendship work, such that I took a vacation and flew halfway across the country to visit. I stuck it out the rest of the vacation but honestly I should have just turned the car around then, gotten my stuff, and flown back home early.
F**k you Audrey. When a friend discloses something personal and painful, you support them. Be skeptical if you want to, but you don’t get to f*****g argue about the validity of their trauma.
Not just *a* friendship, but multiple.
I was part of a decent-sized friend circle, everyone hung out and knew each-other. A couple of them decide to invite “a*****e” to hang out with us. A*****e started openly insulting one friend, to his face, for being a homosexual. My girlfriend (God bless her for this) was the first person to stand up for gay friend. A*****e gets all huffy, won’t apologize, and leaves. “Friends” started getting rude with her, myself, and gay friend. They blame the three of us for creating drama (me for backing up both of them,). Gay friend stopped hanging out with everyone because it was clear they were siding with a*****e.
When we’re all hanging out again, who should show up this time but a*****e, with his friend we’ll call Pervert. Pervert keeps making disgusting remarks to girlfriend while giving me a look like he’s challenging me. Girlfriend tells him to f**k off after he starts going on about what he’d do to her if he found her in a dark alley. We both leave. One “friend” texts me later telling both of us to never hang out with the group again. The rest of them start ghosting us.
Then the stalking started. They’d show up in groups to places they knew girlfriend and I would be at. A*****e, Pervert, and the whole crew. They wouldn’t say anything to us, just barge in, sit nearby, and make themselves as loud and disruptive as possible. That behavior ended up getting them banned from most local places after too many people complained.
About a year later, one of the former friends contacted us when he was drunk, lonely, and feeling guilty. Friend group fell apart shortly after they got banned from local places we’d hang out at. People blamed each-other for escalating, everything was non-stop drama, people started picking sides and factionalizing, and it finally fell apart with all of them hating each-other. A*****e moved away, Pervert was in jail. Girlfriend and I pretty much told him to go pound sand.
There was this kid at my middle school who everyone liked and thought was really funny. Everyone in my large friend group was friends with him. Then one day, he called one of our teachers(not even a teacher people outright hated, she was more just kinda quirky and annoying) the n-word. Eventually everyone found out and we knew that nothing constituted that and I don’t know of anyone who genuinely liked him by the end of the year.
Had an intervention between a couple who were also my friends. The girl literally said that she was dating the guy for convenience and thought it was okay to: 1) say that it was his fault that he got fired from his mother’s workplace after she instigated him; 2) talk s**t on his recently deceased grandmother who raised him; 3) compare him with her ex-boyfriend and a lot more. Stopped talking to her ever since, despite living in the same house as her for a couple more months.
Even after hearing that, the boyfriend didn’t break up with her until the end of the school year. He started dating a new girl (who is friends with my boyfriend) and then proceeded to cheat on her. Immediately dumped him as a friend as well.
