Uncover the Shocking Clues Your Partner Is Hiding: A Top Investigator Reveals All
Ever catch yourself wondering if your partner’s sudden “late nights at the office” are actually a cover-up for something more… sneaky? Well, you’re not alone. Tom Martin, a private eye with more tricks up his sleeve than a magician on payday, has spilled the beans on the four biggest signs that might mean your significant other’s playing a little fast and loose. Sure, nobody wants to play detective in their own relationship — but let’s be honest, sometimes the gut feeling just won’t quit. Before you jump to wild conclusions or end up sabotaging what could be a golden connection, it pays to know what the pros are watching out for — from mysterious business trips to those awkward “less sex” moments. Strap in, because Martin’s got more than a few clues to help you decode the suspicious signals without turning into a full-blown spy. LEARN MORE
A private investigator has shared the four most common signs that your partner could be being unfaithful.
While you might suspect that your significant other is having an affair, it can be difficult to know for sure without any solid proof.
And while of course, nobody wants to find out their partner is cheating, most of us would rather know the truth.
If anyone knows how to catch a cheater, it’s private investigator Tom Martin, who has shared the biggest signs that someone could be up to no good.
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A private investigator has shared the four most common signs that your partner is cheating (Getty Stock Image)
The former federal agent told The Independent about the key signs to look out for.
Martin also wrote the book, Seeing Life through Private Eyes, which lists the top 20 ‘giveaway’ signs of a cheating partner.
How have things changed recently?
Martin explained that prior to social media, more people relied on the work of private investigators to help them expose their cheating partners.
“The game has changed drastically. And technology is 100 percent the reason why,” he said.
However, Martin did emphasise that it’s important not to jump to conclusions that could ‘jeopardise a valuable relationship over what may be unfounded anxieties’.
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Martin explained that technology has helped people expose cheaters (Getty Stock Image)
What are the four signs?
According to Martin, the most common signs that suggest your partner could be cheating are:
Spending longer at work
Suddenly spending longer in the office could be a red flag when it comes to cheating, with Martin explaining any unexpected change in habit is worth taking note of.
Business trips
According to the private investigator, frequent ‘business trips’ could also be a cause for concern, especially if they have seemingly come out of nowhere.
Less sex
Fluctuations in how much sex a couple has is completely normal, but Martin claims it could also be a tell-tale sign that your partner is being unfaithful.
Being defensive
The expert also believes that getting defensive could also be a red flag and a potential sign that your partner is hiding something from you.
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Martin revealed four of the most common signs (Getty Stock Image)
Martin’s full list is as follows:
- Sudden change of habits
- Leaving home early and coming back late
- Numerous business trips
- Questionable holiday or family event absences
- A noticeable increase in overtime
- Unexplained spending
- Secret social media accounts (or emails)
- Hidden credit card bills
- Excessive grooming or self-care
- Smelling like someone else
- Buying presents you haven’t seen
- Items that can’t be explained – e.g. condoms in the car
- Suddenly joining a gym
- Missed calls from an unknown number
- Text messages that appear coded or secretive
- Less sex
- Evasiveness or defensiveness
- They tell obvious lies
- Having a short temper
- Dislike surprise visits (your unexpected arrival may come at an inconvenient time for a cheater)
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