“Unforgettable Words: Discover the Heartwarming Secrets Behind 57 Life-Changing Conversations”
“What would make you feel safe right now?”
After I put them through hell and my own father ask them those same words they still heard my own pain and repeated them back to me. Not even my parents have asked me that before, it was something my father and mother were learning in therapy together when everything between me and that person went down and thought I truely was the villain, they still asked me, cared and wanted me to feel and be safe. They knew I was hurting and lashing out just as they do sometimes and though they never had to be involved in my hurt and I pulled them into it anyways they still loved me and offered safety to me. I will never forget that or them. It lives in my mind.
A couple of weeks ago, I was alone in a city i didn’t know, and I had my heart broken in a cafe. The waiter saw that i was upset and asked if I was ok I WEPT, she sat with me and talked to me while I had my coffees and I ordered something to eat. I went to pay and found out she had paid for all of it ( cried again ) it was nice to have someone to sit with.
Ive lost many friends and family in my life and a girl i was like on and off again with sent me this after my best friend of 32 years died tragically.
“but i really have always admired how strong and sweet of a person you are in every unfair situation like this. Its such a big part of your character i really love.”.
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