“Unforgivable Act: Teen’s Shocking Revenge on Future Stepmom’s Dream Dress Revealed!”

You might want to take your rose-tinted glasses off before you walk down the aisle

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Blended families aren’t for everyone. Theory is different from reality especially when it comes to blended families, notes wedding planning website The Knot. “When marrying someone with a child from a previous relationship there may be bumps in the road and it’s essential you’re honest about whether you can ride them out,” reads the site.

If you feel that you aren’t okay with the possibility of a bumpy future, you shouldn’t feel bad admitting it. Sooner rather than later. Heidi Farrell runs the Not Just A Stepmom blog, and agrees. If you have deal breakers, and the warning bells are ringing, listen to them,” advised Farrell. “It’s better to cut off a relationship with a man with kids cleanly before investing time, money and your heart…just to feel resentful – or trapped – later.”

Despite the challenges, many couples are able to make their blended family marriages work. Experts say communication is key. “Being on the same page as your partner, cooperating with the children’s co-parents, and giving the kids time to adjust to the new normal is key,” notes VeryWell Mind.

And if you do it right, “with time, you and your crew will be able to create your own family traditions, build strong bonds, and make new memories together as a family.”

“Is this the future you want?” Many people shared their own similar experiences, and warned the bride to run for the hills