“Unlock the Mystery: 62 Surprising Turn-Offs Men Overlook That Could Sabotage Their Charm!”
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“Many guys incorrectly assume that talking about money — particularly boasting about how much money they make — attracts women, when it’s actually a huge turn-off to anyone but extreme gold diggers,” Anderson told Bored Panda. “Talking about money is a turn-off because the underlying psychology is approval-seeking. If a woman senses you’re trying to wow her with your finances, all it actually tells her is that you’re not on her level.”
Anderson is now happily married. But admits she had her fair share of “braggy” men during her dating days. “I’ve had multiple guys try to tell me how much they make on first dates. Super cringe. A guy once invited me on an expensive Europe trip on a first date,” she said.
The dating coach added that men should pay close attention to the cues they get from women. “If you’re meeting a woman for the first time, the key signs she’s not attracted to you all have to do with how much attention she pays you. If she’s not making an effort to engage with you in conversation, and especially if she’s turning away from you or physically moving away from you, it’s a sign she’s not attracted to you.”
“The way you turn the situation around is by moving on. You probably can’t change a woman’s mind about you — at least in the short term — but you can always find someone else you’re attracted to who will give you a shot!”
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“The key mistake I see men make in dating is wishful thinking. Many guys, especially less experienced guys, will misinterpret friendliness for romantic interest,” she revealed. “So, the key red flag men need to look out for is unavailability. It doesn’t matter how much a woman texts you, or how flirty she is when she texts. If she won’t meet up with you in-person for dates, you’re wasting your time.”
