“Unlock the Mystery: 62 Surprising Turn-Offs Men Overlook That Could Sabotage Their Charm!”
#16
Persistence to the degree it gets scary. If I don’t like you and I say no and you ask me again, sure, I’ll say no a second time and wave you off. But when you aggressively keep moving at me, physically following me, disbelieving me if I say I have a partner (regardless of whether or not I do)… nobody finds that s**t cute.Talking about screwing-up.
Going out on a date, it’s understandable a man would want to make it seem like he has it all (or most of it) together, and this is the tack a lot of guys take. But when a man is down to earth and can talk about the mistakes he’s made or errors he corrected with perspective, humility, and even humor, it really makes him stand out to me.
Someone who is relaxed and not afraid to screw-up a little bit is totally sexy, because it puts me at ease and makes me feel like I don’t have to be super perfect either and that he is likely to be more adventurous and forgiving.
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#17
Unkind behavior. Things like negging, bragging, acting ‘dominant’. That just tells me that you’re an insecure, fake, and/or immoral person, which is a deal-breaker for me.
#18
When men try to act tough or like their over someone/ something. It’s ok to be sad/cry/be affected by something emotionally. And no your not better than a waitress, garbage man, obese person, weak person, homeless person, ‘dumb’ person I could go on.
Researchers surveyed 7,000 people between the ages of 18 and 65, to find out what men and women find attractive. They found that on a scale of 0-100, “On average, females rate age, education, intelligence, income, trust, and emotional connection around 9 to 14 points higher than males.” Most guys prioritized attractiveness and physical build when seeking out a mate.