“Unlock the Mystery: 62 Surprising Turn-Offs Men Overlook That Could Sabotage Their Charm!”
“The key challenge most single women face dating is differentiating between guys who just want to hook up, versus guys who are serious partners,” said Anderson. “Assuming you’re looking for a long-term partner, then, the red flags you want to look for as a woman have to do with lack of effort and commitment. For example, if a guy only texts you after 9pm to ‘hang out’, that’s an obvious and major red flag. Another red flag is if he’s too pushy for physicality on your first or second date — it sends the message that’s all he’s interested in, and doesn’t expect to be around for it later.”
#19
Brag about how much money they make or what they own.
#20
Brag about their fantasies of committing acts of violence against those who have wronged him or me. Like, when I hear that, I don’t think “wow, what a brave and honorable man”, I think “wow, he enjoys brutality too much for me to be comfortable with him.”.
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#21
They think being mean/roasting a girl makes them attractive.
Guys, provided you haven’t done any of the unattractive things listed here, you might stand a chance with the woman you’ve been eyeing. But how would you know? According to the Gentleman’s Journal, “If she’s standing in front of you, arms crossed and looking down at her shuffling shoes, then she’s probably not into you. There’ve been studies to suggest that women who are actually interested will make sure that they are open to your presence, not closed off and unwilling to engage.”
#22
Play mind games. The whole « treat her mean to keep her keen » thing is simply incredibly cruel and manipulative.
