Unlock the Secret Power of These 26 Unexpected Acts That Make Anyone Irresistibly Attractive.
My ex took himself very seriously and couldn’t bear to do something that might make him look silly.
When I met my current partner his daughter was 5 years old and that man would do any old goofy thing to get a laugh out of her. Funny dances, weird faces, making up little nonsense songs, animal impressions, you name it. I clocked that willingness to put self-consciousness aside to make his little girl giggle and it endeared him so much to me 💕.
Manners, a man with good manners. Not even big things, but hiding or opening the door, being polite to staff in stores or shops, saying please and thank you, and just noticing things. It’s an instance hit for me.
His place is 15 mins from my place. He always, without fail, used to give me something to munch on – a fruit or snack, for the drive back to my place.
He showed the smallest amount of kindness to me and I fell hard lol. Shared his food with me, opened things for me, told me to be self-confident, and just generally made me smile when we were together. I didn’t think much of the guy when we first met but after all that he was the most beautiful thing I’d ever seen lol. I’m not sure I’ll ever feel that way about someone again.
I have one male coworker in my office and he always goes to pick up orders, carry the heavy supplies around, you name it. One day he offers to run to the store to get a sandwich for a coworker that was complaing she didn’t even have time to eat…And its someone who doesn’t even like the guy, badmouths him every chance she gets- so I ask him whyyy is he going out of his way to do something nice for someone who clearly doesn’t even like him?
His answer floored me – Because a real man takes care of the people around him, regardless if he is friends with them or not. I def stopped seeing him as simply doormat-nice.
My boyfriend and I were taking a flight for our first trip together very early on in our relationship. While going through airport security I observed him helping out a frazzled lady struggling with an infant. His observation of her struggle, empathy for her situation and the way he helped out like it was the most obvious thing to do really made him shine. He’s now the father of my toddler and we have another one on the way :).
“I know the conversation derailed a bit but you were in the middle of telling a story, can I hear the rest?”
I fell for him hard and fast. No one had ever made me feel heard that way.
I went to a wedding with my then gf. I was on call that weekend so did not drink but she had a few too many. I helped her in the passenger seat, i shut the door and get in the drivers seat. She says to me drunkenly, “You know what? We’re going to get married. I knew you were the one since you first spoke to me. Okay?”. I said okay. Then we talked about my nice shoulders. This was like our 6th date. The next time I talked to her, I hinted around if she remembered the car ride home. Did I complain about my job? Oh I’m so sorry, it must have bored you. My shoulders and I did marry her about 2 years later.
Happened at the beginning when I moved to Germany, not knowing the language, not knowing anyone. Everyone in my class laughed at me for not knowing the language. She was the only one who was nice to me and helped me instead of laughing at me.
Me and my boyfriend and I had only been together for a few months, I was invited to the his brothers wedding and wore a blue long gown (was too over dressed and always felt embarrassed about it) we had to take stairs to get to the upstairs venue. The dress was long. I didn’t struggle in it, but as we were walking up the stairs he held the trail of the dress as I walked up and down…. knew I got myself a good-en still togther 8 years on.
We were walking home from the bar late, homeless guy came up to our group to ask for money. nobody said anything for a second, just looked at him, when one of my friends walks up to the man and introduces himself and shakes his hand. single mot admirable and attractive thing i’ve seen, recognizing the humanity in a man down on his luck and taking the time to introduce himself. i believe he gave him a few dollars after chatting for a few min.
another one is noticing that a (different) guy would always show up. he was at every rehearsal, funeral, party, helping someone move – if he said he would be there, he was there. you could see he really cared for his people and the way he showed it was by showing up for them.
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