“Unlocking Masculinity: Discover 36 Surprising Traits of the Modern Secure Man!”
He doesn’t feel it necessary to diminish or degrade other people’s masculinity.
I’ll use my dad as an example.
He pursues his interests no matter what they may be.
My dad was a butcher and a car mechanic. He trained in the armed forces.
He also learned to sew, embroider, cook, bake, style hair, garden and emboss leather.
He could fix a broken sink, tune up the car, do the laundry, iron his shirts, make the bed change the baby’s diaper, bake a cake and cook dinner.
No one ever questioned his manliness, though that might because he could also tear your arm off and beat senseless you with it.
I don’t know. A good indicator would honestly be the opinion of those around him.
The best compliment of my recent years was from a female coworker. Someone was making a joke about me, and she said, “No baby, that’s a real man. Y’all don’t know”
I’ve been thinking about that. Not for myself. But how we can uplift each other and build each other up. Knowledge, emotionally, spiritually, etc.
He will let his daughters paint his fingernails and toenails and put pink ribbons in his hair or his beard. Not one milimeter of insecurity there!
Extra points if he goes to work and shows his co-workers the next day. :).
He owns and uses a bidet. Thinking it’s gay to properly clean your a*s is a huge red flag.
Not asking what is a good sign that a dude is secure in his masculinity is the first step in not being a little weenie.
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