“Unlocking the Secrets: What This Hidden Discovery Could Mean for the Future”
I'm glad I got the hell outta that marriage. Steer clear of ragers, it's not a phase.
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#5
Dismissive comments about my interests seemed minor until they became a pattern.
MrGrumplestiltskin: Yes, this one! I wore dresses a lot and like the color pink. I was always told that was "too girly" (even though I'm a girl, I was meant to think badly about liking this color). I started dating a high school best friend and he told me "I don't like cute things" while also telling me how cute he thought I was and how he liked bending down to kiss me. It was confusing. He didn't like girls who wore dresses or hyperfeminine (which I am both). He didn't like being romantic and made fun of me when I kept flowers he gifted me. Being dismissive or even ridiculing things is such a huge red flag.
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#6
Mine happened on the very first date. He said he was late because he was having trouble finding parking. He later told me he actually walked to the place from his nearby apartment. Sure, we all make innocuous white lies, but all he did was lie the entire relationship.
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#7
Everything I liked and enjoyed he would make fun of me and take the p**s. I was young (18/19) and had never had a relationship before. I was very much in love with him too. I felt like I was sad and pathetic. So I stopped doing what I loved and wouldnât tell him anything.
Iâm 29 now, and never been in another relationship as it seriously changed me. Iâm getting back to myself. I know 10 years is a long time but, Iâm accepting that now. I now do what I love. I read, I write, I paint, I water colour. I am happy and content again. I feel like Iâve got myself back. It took years for me to accept myself again because of this boy.
