“Unlocking the Secrets: What This Hidden Discovery Could Mean for the Future”
he says no, donât come over. so I wait. he calls me from the hospital (that he drove to!) 30 min later and says his brother met him there. at this point itâs clear it wasnât a stroke, and I say can I come meet you, which hospital. he says no.
so I take my friends to the Ren fair and text and call to check on him. he ends up flipping out on me saying I should never have gone since he was in the hospital. I just thought since we had only been dating a month, and his family was there, and he wouldnât cooperate in telling me which hospital to go to, or where to meet him to see him, AND HE WAS FINE, I didnât think cancelling my plan was appropriate, or even what he wanted.
This set the stage for the rest of the relationship. He would never admit to what he wanted or needed, and actually would tell me the opposite of what he needed, sincerely, even when I said ah but let me take care of you! or whatever. Histrionic displays and tantrums are a big red flag and you need to leave immediately.
It ended in him almost killing me during a tantrum on a camping trip two years later. They do not change for you, once you show them youâll stay through their bad behavior.
#30
When they brushed off my boundaries like they were suggestions.
mariana96as: I shouldâve known my ex didnât know what boundaries are when I saw that his parents have two toilets facing each other in their bathroom. The whole family is insane
No__direction: Mine didnât even have a bathroom door. Just a curtain. They removed the door! No knocking either. Theyâd look through the curtain, stair for a long moment the say 'hurry up' or walk away with an irritated vibe.
