“Unmasking Sabotage: 12 Subtle Clues That Reveal Someone Wants to Undermine Your Success!”
Here are the signs that someone’s secretly hoping you don’t make it.
1. They Express Concern Instead of Support
When you share your plans or ambitions, their first response is to express concern. Rather than congratulating you or offering encouragement, they lead with questions like, “Are you sure this is the right move?” or “Do you really think you can do that?”.
On the surface, it may seem like they’re being thoughtful, but the underlying message is clear—they cast serious doubts about your ability to succeed. Their reaction leaves you questioning your choices and might even chip away at your self-confidence.
2. They Give Backhanded Compliments
“You got the job? Wow, I didn’t think they were hiring people with your background!” Backhanded compliments are a classic way for someone to disguise their envy or disbelief as praise. It’s their way of pretending to celebrate you while making you feel like you’ve somehow stumbled into your success.
The comment seems sweet at first, but there’s a sour aftertaste when (or if) you realize what they’re saying. These backhanded compliments can eat away at your confidence, leaving you wondering if maybe they’re right. Don’t let them get to you. Your accomplishments are yours—no need to apologize for earning them.
3. They Say Nothing When You Win
A little jealousy is good, but it shouldn’t stop someone from celebrating others. You just announced some exciting news, and while everyone else is celebrating, one is oddly quiet. When someone can’t bring themselves to show even a little enthusiasm for your success, it’s usually a sign that your happiness bothers them.
