“Unmasking the Advice Trap: 40 Outrageously Condescending Tips That’ll Make You Cringe!”
“Condescending behaviors can be a defense mechanism used by individuals who have insecurities, are afraid to show vulnerability, or want to assert superiority (due to underlying feelings of inferiority),” Gabriela shared. “Individuals with condescending behaviors might use this as a method to draw attention away from their own insecurities or gain a sense of control in social interactions.”
#4
I studied music and guitar making for years, which means that I know how to use a band saw, and many other wood tools. I can literally make a guitar out of a bunch of logs.
Everytime I meet a guy who plays guitar he tries to explain me how it works and how itâs made and even after I tell them that Iâm a guitar maker, they still try to prove that they know better. (Iâm a girl)
Same when I say anything related to wood working, nobody will take it seriously. I was often told to âgo back in the kitchenâ…
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#5
I chose to live with my parents even after I finished my education and had the means to move out on my own because my mother was always ill and needed the help. An acquaintance mentioned to me one time at a party in front of everyone that she earns 65,000 a year which is why she’s able to live on her own and I should aim for a salary like that so I could “finally be self-sufficient” – I smiled at her.
I was making 6 figures.
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#6
This happened a week ago.
I’m a 30 year old woman and I manage a grocery store. Our store got lucky and we were chosen to host a hiring event for assistant department managers because our office is a bit bigger than most of the stores in the area. An older guy was peering at the meat counter and I walked up to him and asked him if he needed help because I didnt see anybody behind the counter and he said, “I doubt it. I’m waiting for my interview for assistant manager and I have an insane amount of experience.”