“Unmasking the Shadows: 87 Toxic Traits You Never Knew Were Harming Your Family”
#38
People pleaser. It’s called self-abandonment & leads to resentment.
So I work on saying how I really feel (nicely of course), & even if it’s uncomfortable or awkward or could potentially make someone unhappy with me. It’s so hard. I just want everyone to be happy…. but I deserve to be happy too.
#39
I get very annoyed when people tell me basic information assuming I don't know it. If they were condescending or something then maybe i'd be safe. But no I am a massive prick when it comes to this. They are just trying to help but I always take it as "oh he doesn't know this, he's an idiot". I mostly blame my mum for this.
#40
I give people the silent treatment when I’m hurt or angry. Toxic for me and them.
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#41
I’m too self centered sometimes.
#42
I interrupt people when I already know what they are going to say instead of letting them finish their sentences. I also overshare at times when it would be better to keep more things to myself. I also have a tendency to view the world in a negative light and assume the worst out of people.
#43
I’m stupidly paranoid.
I’ve never been cheated on but I always think the person I’m with is cheating on me, despite them showing 0 signs of cheating.
I usually manage to keep it bottled up but on the rare occurrence it slips out it’s embarrassing to explain my reasoning.
#44
I’m not the best listener. I’m a major projector. I’m constantly talking about the past.
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#45
I can be stubborn at times, even when I am aware that I am wrong. It’s something I’m working on, but it’s difficult to let go of the need to be right.