“Unveiling the Hidden Bias: How a Viral TikTok Trend Reveals the Dark Reality of Weaponized Incompetence Against Women”
It’s when someone pretends to be unable to successfully complete a task
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She explained what signs a person should look for within their relationship to understand that they may be experiencing weaponized incompetence.
“Consider the division of labor in the relationship,” Dr. Scott said. “Are you and your partner comfortable with your respective ‘chores?’ Are there any concerns about gender roles and how they may have played a role in the tasks you each chose?”
She continued: “A critical consideration is whether either partner ‘resents’ the chores they are undertaking, and if so, an open and honest conversation is absolutely warranted.”
The person will then hope that someone else will do it for them
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Dr. Scott went on to touch on the concept of mental load, explaining: “Mental load involves the emotional and cognitive effort needed to manage all of one’s responsibilities in life, including work, family, and relationships.
“When we feel mentally overloaded, it may feel easier to minimize our capabilities and try to offload responsibilities onto someone else, but this can definitely lead to weaponized incompetence, even if it is unintentional.
“Mental load, burnout, and resentment can quickly become toxic in a relationship if left unchecked, and it is essential that partners sit down and communicate openly with each other about their feelings so they can find a mutually agreeable solution together.”
