“Unveiling the Hidden Bias: How a Viral TikTok Trend Reveals the Dark Reality of Weaponized Incompetence Against Women”
The mental health expert shared: “In psychology, we often discuss ‘social loafing,’ which is the perception that you can put forth less effort when you are a part of a group, either because others know more than you do or that your input will not be as valuable.
“I wonder if this is the more ‘unintentional’ form of weaponized incompetence.
“I remember my father doing a horrible job of making the bed each morning and my mother finally giving up and doing it herself.
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“I wonder whether this was 1) intentional weaponized incompetence, 2) social loafing, or 3) a need within him to be ‘taken care of’ that he didn’t express verbally.
“I don’t think we will ever know, but communication and openness between individuals will always be essential.”
Dr. Scott finally advised: “Communication is essential on both sides! Set aside uninterrupted time with your partner to discuss the division of labor and identify how stress may be affecting both partners.
Women reported higher average stress levels than men
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“Be honest and direct with your concerns and consider solutions that will reduce the amount of chores.
