“Wedding Drama Unleashed: Bride’s Shocking Ultimatum to Sister Over Controversial Dress!”

So, the bride unceremoniously kicked her out of the festivities

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Wearing white when the invitation asks you not to is without a doubt rude

Upstaging a bride at her own wedding is never a good idea. Wedding industry professionals say that this is the most common number one rule. “Not wearing white is the most obvious guideline that falls under this umbrella, as white attire competes with the bride’s gown (if she’s wearing white, and if she’s wearing a gown),” bridal style expert Shelley Brown told Coveteur.

“And avoid light pastel colors that can look white in flash photography unless otherwise requested,” she added. In fact, many wedding planners recommend guests leave all shades of white to the bride even if there was no official rule in the invitation.

Event planner Megan Seaton told Martha Stewart that there’s only one time there’s an exception to this rule. “It is OK to wear white if, and only if, the couple has specifically requested that white attire be worn. In this case, the attire will be specifically mentioned in the invitation. If it’s not on there, don’t risk it.”

Okay, but what if a guest already came wearing white, like the sister in this story? What is the bride to do then? Etiquette expert Lisa Mirza Grotts says there are two ways to deal with such a fashion faux pas.

The first one is to discreetly ask one of the members of the bridal party to offer the guest a jacket, shawl, or something else to cover up. The goal is to add some color to their outfit so that they’re not as noticeable.

The second solution is to simply let it go. “Don’t let a minor wardrobe mishap overshadow your day,” Grotts suggests. She recommends focusing on the big day and not letting someone else ruin it with their attention-seeking shenanigans.

Some people may be opting for something new, but many still want to adhere to old wedding traditions

It’s one thing to accidentally wear white to a wedding. When the dress code emphasizes that only the bride will wear white and you come dressed in a white, floor-length gown — that’s intentional maliciousness. The sister tried (poorly) to defend the decision to don a white dress, saying that nobody has traditional weddings anymore.

While it’s true that many couples nowadays deviate from wedding traditions, many Americans still perform many of the classic wedding traditions. A 2021 YouGov poll surveyed already-married people about their opinions on which wedding traditions should stay and which need to go.

Surprisingly, 50% of the respondents said they think brides should wear white to their wedding, and only 24% were against it. People also would like to keep traditions such as the first dance, thank-you notes to the guests, the exchange of rings, and the bride tossing her bouquet.

However, many experts say that more and more millennials are choosing elopement over lavish, traditional weddings. The founder of New York-based elopement service Eloping Is Fun Jenny MacFarlane says that her business almost doubles every year.

“My company does maybe 60, 70 [weddings] a year, so it’s significant,” she told Glamour in 2017. “From what I know about millennials, things are tough financially. That’s one of the big reasons, in general. People just want to start their life. They don’t feel like they have to follow any sort of traditional norms anymore.”

“You set a clear boundary for your wedding”; people in the comments believed the bride had every right to be throw her sister out