Behind the Mask of Kindness: 28 Shocking Tales of Manipulation by So-Called "Nice Guys"
Shortly after that he brought a box of chocolate to work for me. Once again I kept refusing but he insisted it was for me, he didn’t like chocolate and wouldn’t eat it. After that I mentioned that I was married with a toddler. He had a disgusted face not at me being married but having a child and asked me why I had a child so young. (I was 25 when this happened, and had a 2 1/2 year old at the time)
Later on I was visiting with some residents in the activity room and he came in to talk to me. He started talking about how good my body was, how he couldn’t tell I had a child. He then grabbed my b**t. I tried to turn away and he let go, but then he continued talking about how tight my b**t is and how perfect my [private parts] were, after looking straight at my chest he then swung his arm behind me and grabbed my b**t again, brining me into him.
I felt so violated. I spent months thinking this was just some innocent overly nice guy but he was just grooming me. I told my supervisor who immediately told the director of the facility. Within 20 minutes he was fired and I never saw him again.
The next day the director called me into her office and said she had several complaints against this employee and as soon as she heard my story and saw how he was escalating she knew she had to fire him immediately. I was so scared after that, every shift I walked out to my car late at night I thought he’d be out there.
Other complaints: 1. Him bragging to other women employees about him hiring [working woman] and treating them to Olive Garden before having [intimacy] with them.
2. Him viscioualy attacking another female employee, calling her “fat” “stupid” etc, in front of their boss and other peers.
Those are just the complaints I heard from my friends after this happened, who knows what else he did.
Just saying ladies, if someone assaults you it isn’t your fault. Giving people the benefit of the doubt and trying to see the good in people doesn’t mean you deserve to be assaulted and harassed. And don’t be afraid to be assertive and rude, we don’t owe anyone niceness.
Idk if this is a “nice guy” or just really f*****g annoying but
A guy I know is hopelessly in love. He knows I’m not single. Tells me things all the time like “in another realm, we’d be together. We’d make beautiful children. Don’t you think we’d make beautiful children?” And I just answer like um???? And then when he sees me, he’ll start saying all these love quotes from books he’s read. he’s made lewd comments as I’ve bent over before. He also whines that I never message/talk to him. He’s some guy at my school but I hardly see him so I’m not worried at all, it’s just really [darn] annoying.
In high school my older sister was extremely popular and pretty (think model material), while I was quite shy and weird and kept to myself, with no desire to be popular I might add. Somehow I managed to attract the attention of this sketchy older guy who began to frequently message me on AIM. In an effort to win my affection, he told me that a bunch of upperclassmen guys had gotten together and held a vote to determine who was hotter, my older sister or me. In his words, “Everyone else voted for your sister, but I voted for you even though they all made fun of me!” as though I was supposed to be grateful for his apparent self sacrifice. Needless to say, I didn’t go for it.
I once had a friend that had ‘no interest in me besides friendship’ explode at me in a bar and call me a c**t when he asked me to list the reasons why I would not date him. I did not want to and he would not let it go. Then he got [angry] when I told him I’m not attracted to him and even if I was, I lived on my own and wasn’t interested in dating anyone that still lived with their parents creeping on 30…
In college, I played a lot of online video games. I posted on forums related to these games often. One guy, we’ll call him Bob, decided to “show me” how careless I’d been with my personal information. This lead to a phone call, on a number I never provided, during which he told me what dorm I lived in, at what campus, as well as information from public records regarding my family. On this call he told me how easy it would be for him to get there and r**e me. This was quite frightening, and when I put him on blast publicly for it, he stated he was “trying to show me how careless I’d been” and prove a point.
Years later, I went to a group meet-up with a bunch of people from this forum (with a guest I knew already), and he called me, on the same number (shoulda changed it) to ask me to wait for him outside, because he knew what I looked like. My guest and I met up with everyone and pretty quickly left.
I met a guy on OKCupid. We talked for a while and he kind of ghosted, but whatever, I kind of forgot he even existed for a while but friended me on facebook before he disappeared. He was never active so I never really heard from him.
I met a different guy and we started dating. I changed my status and he started messaging me minutes later asking about what was going on. We politely talked and he was being kind of flirty, but some people just naturally are so I was just being polite with my responses. The topic finally comes around to if I ever wanted to go on a date with him because we had discussed it before he ghosted. I informed him that I was in a relationship and he responded with something like, “Okay, cool. I just thought *we* were talking is all so I guess you were just playing me.” This guy had disappeared for MONTHS but was getting [angry] that I moved on. I mentioned this to him, but he just kind of danced around it, called me a s**t and then didn’t respond to anything I had to say. I unfriended him and thought it was the last I would hear from him.
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