The Shocking Moments That Shattered 82 Lifelong Friendships Forever
She asked someone else to be her Maid of Honor and didn’t even ask me to be a Bridesmaid.
Note: This was 6 years ago and it is still the biggest friendship heartbreak of my life. We had been friends since birth and were stuck at the hip ever since. Our parents treated us like sisters and we were even grounded like ones. We both experienced our family traumas together (I.e Parents divorces, car accident, etc.). I thought she was my platonic soulmate but I guess we just ended up being more of a twin flame?
She left her 1 year old son home alone while she went out to run a bunch of errands. We were on the phone for about an hour or so and she was in the drive thru getting a Coke and was like oh he’s at home asleep I didn’t want to wake him up. No one was at home watching him. So I called someone I knew who lived in her apt complex and the apt manager called the police. I blocked her and we never spoke again. Randomly she’ll look at my Instagram stories. This was 11 years ago and we don’t live in the same state anymore.
Massive energy vampire with major codependency issues.. Everything happening in her life was a calamity. We could only hang out in places that she felt comfortable, we only did things she wanted to do. The only reason we were friends was because we were similar in age in a choir full of people several years older than us, and she clamped onto me first chance she got.
Loaned him money and told him to pay me back when he was on his feet. He gets on his feet, starts telling me when he’s going to pay me back, and never does. The guy is all over social media taking trips to Vegas and other countries.
Flaking on me repeatedly with no notice. Like make plans to hangout and just not show up. It started with a particular friend group after I had my first baby. It was so painful to realize how little consideration they had for me. I have a no tolerance policy on this type of behavior now. If you don’t wanna hang out or have to cancel, it’s fine as long as you let me know. But if someone’s just not gonna show up and waste my time? As far as I’m concerned, that person isn’t my friend.
For years, I watched her cut off every close friend and family member she had, and I knew that one day I’d be the one that offended her for whatever little reason. I lastest pretty long but eventually it was my turn. Shes now in her 60s and talks to maybe three people.
Found out she was racist against a particular group. I’m part of that group.
She always asked for advice for her realtionship cuz her man lost weight and started cheating on her. I gave her honest opinions she never took it. He constantly cheated on her she would cry and put me and her family thru [hell]. Then the one time out of all the times ive been around him, me and him were alone filling up their sons Piñata(s) with snacks n candy for his first birthday, he accused me of hitting on him. She said i was trying to get at him and then i told her im good off her friendship.
He hit me with a feelings confession. In fact, more than one so-called male “friend” has done this to me. I always cut them from my life at once.
Message to men everywhere: feelings confessions are awkward and creepy 100% of the time. Real men do not try to long-game their way into a woman’s pants. Real men flirt and make no secret of their attraction.
My best friend from college had some kind of creepy/strange obsession with my brother. after years of best friendship she had started going to him and trying to “bond” with him over sharing some of my super personal, private information. oh and she threw in some total lies too. I broke it off in a text the day before college graduation and never looked back.
I have to admit that it’s been really hard and although it’s gotten easier over the last three years I still think about her every single day. I miss her but I absolutely cannot justify staying friends with somebody who hates me.
This guy and I had so much in common. We got along great. We’re both retired (early retirement. not too old).
He apparently never planned for retirement. My late wife and I sacrificed a lot for our future. So I’m doing fine, but friend isn’t. (he made a lot more money than I did when we were working).
So because he’s always broke, he acts like he’s entitled to my money. Not long ago, he asked if I could buy him a drink at our usual bar. I agreed, so he ordered drink after drink, and decided to go ahead and have dinner on my tab. He really doesn’t see anything wrong with it.














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